I don’t really like to say I’m asexual because I might not be but I have a significant lack of want to have sex with people. Like, I do not want to have sex with others no matter there genitals or anything. I certainly feel feelings towards others but whenever things begin to progress and I start to feel like sex is what’s expected next; I start to distance myself. I am in whatever way you consider it, a virgin. However, I do get horny and sometimes I do want to give myself a orgasm. I can finish by rubbing my clit and I prefer that way because I can do it at whatever pace I like and have it done and finished with. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve tried other things but it’s never really felt like anything to me? I’ve tried two fingers with and without lube. Nothing. I’ve tried a dildo. Nothing. I’ve tried other toys. Nothing. And I’m beginning to wonder if I’m just doing it wrong or if it’s my asexuality thats stopping me? I never like feel the urge to moan or get anywhere near orgasming! I’m so embarrassed to post this but I just need to hear some outside advice 😓
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r/sex I don’t really like to say I’m asexual because I might not be but I have a significant lack of want to have sex with people. Like, I do not want to have sex with others no matter there genitals or anything. I certainly feel feelings towards others but whenever things begin to progress and I start to feel like sex is what’s expected next; I start to distance myself. I am in whatever way you consider it, a virgin. However, I do get horny and sometimes I do want to give myself a orgasm. I can finish by rubbing my clit and I prefer that way because I can do it at whatever pace I like and have it done and finished with. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve tried other things but it’s never really felt like anything to me? I’ve tried two fingers with and without lube. Nothing. I’ve tried a dildo. Nothing. I’ve tried other toys. Nothing. And I’m beginning to wonder if I’m just doing it wrong or if it’s my asexuality thats stopping me? I never like feel the urge to moan or get anywhere near orgasming! I’m so embarrassed to post this but I just need to hear some outside advice 😓 submitted by /u/Interesting-Fig-6260 [link] [comments]
I don’t really like to say I’m asexual because I might not be but I have a significant lack of want to have sex with people. Like, I do not want to have sex with others no matter there genitals or anything. I certainly feel feelings towards others but whenever things begin to progress and I start to feel like sex is what’s expected next; I start to distance myself. I am in whatever way you consider it, a virgin. However, I do get horny and sometimes I do want to give myself a orgasm. I can finish by rubbing my clit and I prefer that way because I can do it at whatever pace I like and have it done and finished with. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve tried other things but it’s never really felt like anything to me? I’ve tried two fingers with and without lube. Nothing. I’ve tried a dildo. Nothing. I’ve tried other toys. Nothing. And I’m beginning to wonder if I’m just doing it wrong or if it’s my asexuality thats stopping me? I never like feel the urge to moan or get anywhere near orgasming! I’m so embarrassed to post this but I just need to hear some outside advice 😓
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