My boyfriend (20M) of over a year and i (19F) don’t have sex very often because im sometimes too scared of the pain that comes with it. It’s just confusing – he can make me orgasm or feel super wet/into it, but as soon as we try penetration i feel super tight and as we have sex i often cry from the pain during sex (brutal i know lol). It’s like a tight feeling pain mixed with the feeling of him going too far (even tho he isn’t, i can feel that way in missionary).
Im going to try to book a doctors appointment because i obviously want to leave this up to a professional, i was just wondering if there are any people who have experienced this and don’t anymore, i need a bit of hope because i want to have sex with my boyfriend i just get so scared of the pain and im scared this issue will never change.
Its with noting my ex was larger and never pleasured me or was really into foreplay, but i didn’t experience the same sort of pain as i currently am..so weird!
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r/sex My boyfriend (20M) of over a year and i (19F) don’t have sex very often because im sometimes too scared of the pain that comes with it. It’s just confusing – he can make me orgasm or feel super wet/into it, but as soon as we try penetration i feel super tight and as we have sex i often cry from the pain during sex (brutal i know lol). It’s like a tight feeling pain mixed with the feeling of him going too far (even tho he isn’t, i can feel that way in missionary). Im going to try to book a doctors appointment because i obviously want to leave this up to a professional, i was just wondering if there are any people who have experienced this and don’t anymore, i need a bit of hope because i want to have sex with my boyfriend i just get so scared of the pain and im scared this issue will never change. Its with noting my ex was larger and never pleasured me or was really into foreplay, but i didn’t experience the same sort of pain as i currently am..so weird! submitted by /u/angelcorpse_ [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (20M) of over a year and i (19F) don’t have sex very often because im sometimes too scared of the pain that comes with it. It’s just confusing – he can make me orgasm or feel super wet/into it, but as soon as we try penetration i feel super tight and as we have sex i often cry from the pain during sex (brutal i know lol). It’s like a tight feeling pain mixed with the feeling of him going too far (even tho he isn’t, i can feel that way in missionary).
Im going to try to book a doctors appointment because i obviously want to leave this up to a professional, i was just wondering if there are any people who have experienced this and don’t anymore, i need a bit of hope because i want to have sex with my boyfriend i just get so scared of the pain and im scared this issue will never change.
Its with noting my ex was larger and never pleasured me or was really into foreplay, but i didn’t experience the same sort of pain as i currently am..so weird!
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