We have always been sexual active, but it wasn’t until 2 years ago I always used to fake orgasms because I thought I was broken (I never tried to have one by myself). Then I started trying and learning about my sexuality alone. And now, if I touch myself I can have them, but if he is inside me or if he has been inside me, it hurts and I don’t feel anything. I need to think in another thing (not necesarily sexual but I can’t touch myself while watching him or thinking about him), and he can’t make me reach it. I have tried toys, fingers and oral, but nothing helps. I’m scared, he is really satisfied with sex but I’m not and I’m afraid of hurting his feelings. I just don’t enjoy doing It and he is always asking for it. Every other aspect of the relationship is perfect! We love each other and we enjoy our time. I don’t want to break up with him. I need advice, how would you solve my situation?
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r/sex We have always been sexual active, but it wasn’t until 2 years ago I always used to fake orgasms because I thought I was broken (I never tried to have one by myself). Then I started trying and learning about my sexuality alone. And now, if I touch myself I can have them, but if he is inside me or if he has been inside me, it hurts and I don’t feel anything. I need to think in another thing (not necesarily sexual but I can’t touch myself while watching him or thinking about him), and he can’t make me reach it. I have tried toys, fingers and oral, but nothing helps. I’m scared, he is really satisfied with sex but I’m not and I’m afraid of hurting his feelings. I just don’t enjoy doing It and he is always asking for it. Every other aspect of the relationship is perfect! We love each other and we enjoy our time. I don’t want to break up with him. I need advice, how would you solve my situation? submitted by /u/AnimalOk6817 [link] [comments]
We have always been sexual active, but it wasn’t until 2 years ago I always used to fake orgasms because I thought I was broken (I never tried to have one by myself). Then I started trying and learning about my sexuality alone. And now, if I touch myself I can have them, but if he is inside me or if he has been inside me, it hurts and I don’t feel anything. I need to think in another thing (not necesarily sexual but I can’t touch myself while watching him or thinking about him), and he can’t make me reach it. I have tried toys, fingers and oral, but nothing helps. I’m scared, he is really satisfied with sex but I’m not and I’m afraid of hurting his feelings. I just don’t enjoy doing It and he is always asking for it. Every other aspect of the relationship is perfect! We love each other and we enjoy our time. I don’t want to break up with him. I need advice, how would you solve my situation?
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