What does it mean to be sexually attracted to someone? /u/Lucky_Leven Sex

Does it mean you recognize them as beautiful? Does it mean this person provokes a physical response in you? Are those two feelings always the same in most people?

EDIT: For context, its recently come to my attention that I don’t physically respond in any capacity to sexual advances by my partner. I didn’t know this was weird. I’m female (30) and married. I have ADHD and likely autism. I thought I was bisexual. I find my spouse (male) attractive and I don’t deny him when he wants sex. But I have never thought of him (or anyone else) and become aroused. It’s really confusing for me. Physical stimuli rarely turns me on until I’m in the midst of sex. It feels like physical response to sex, not like a response to a person. But that isn’t how people I know tend to describe it, and I’m now wondering if there is something wrong with me.

Does it mean you recognize them as beautiful? Does it mean this person provokes a physical response in you? Are those two feelings always the same in most people?

EDIT: For context, its recently come to my attention that I don’t physically respond in any capacity to sexual advances by my partner. I didn’t know this was weird. I’m female (30) and married. I have ADHD and likely autism. I thought I was bisexual. I find my spouse (male) attractive and I don’t deny him when he wants sex. But I have never thought of him (or anyone else) and become aroused. It’s really confusing for me. Physical stimuli rarely turns me on until I’m in the midst of sex. It feels like physical response to sex, not like a response to a person. But that isn’t how people I know tend to describe it, and I’m now wondering if there is something wrong with me.