Sexually frustrated with my husband /u/LifeCareless4077 Sex

Any time I try and talk about sexual needs and such, I get the response of “I’m tired of having the same conversation, I already told you I don’t know the answer”. Iv tried understand why he isn’t horny or why I can’t even get him aroused. There’s been more times then not I’ll try and he will say “he is tired” or he will flat out go soft.

The last time we had sex, he got me aroused, got me wet enough then he was like “it needs to go in” and by the time I could feel the “hardness” of his dick was going down. Didn’t last at all.. in fact went soft. Him going soft during full on penetration has happened I know 3 times now.

What can I do? How can I be more supportive? I don’t want an issue, but it seems Iv been getting sexually frustrated.

Any time I try and talk about sexual needs and such, I get the response of “I’m tired of having the same conversation, I already told you I don’t know the answer”. Iv tried understand why he isn’t horny or why I can’t even get him aroused. There’s been more times then not I’ll try and he will say “he is tired” or he will flat out go soft.

The last time we had sex, he got me aroused, got me wet enough then he was like “it needs to go in” and by the time I could feel the “hardness” of his dick was going down. Didn’t last at all.. in fact went soft. Him going soft during full on penetration has happened I know 3 times now.

What can I do? How can I be more supportive? I don’t want an issue, but it seems Iv been getting sexually frustrated.