Sex life restart?
Emotional affairs on both sides, health issues on both sides have set up a pattern where in intimacy would be really sporadic, when I’m not having sex it’s sort of just shuts down and I go into maintenance mode where I jerk off every morning in the shower and just carry on with my day.
Our relationship has greatly improved, we enjoy being around each other but there’s no feeling turned on for me. A year ago we could start kissing and I could feel myself getting hard but now it’s nothing.
Hormonally I’m in good shape, I wake up with an iron erection every morning, I know she masturbates and can have orgasms, our relationship is better but I really have no idea how to get intimacy between us started again. We went on for nearly 20 years having sex pretty much every other day But over the past few years we might’ve been together successfully five or six times. My dick just doesn’t react to her anymore.
I’ve stopped my routine masturbation in hopes that that desire would go elsewhere but it really hasn’t.
Anyone come off a long sex break and get things fired up again in their long-term relationship? All hope isn’t lost because she wants our sex life back as well but I just don’t know how to get out of roommate territory.
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r/sex Sex life restart? Emotional affairs on both sides, health issues on both sides have set up a pattern where in intimacy would be really sporadic, when I’m not having sex it’s sort of just shuts down and I go into maintenance mode where I jerk off every morning in the shower and just carry on with my day. Our relationship has greatly improved, we enjoy being around each other but there’s no feeling turned on for me. A year ago we could start kissing and I could feel myself getting hard but now it’s nothing. Hormonally I’m in good shape, I wake up with an iron erection every morning, I know she masturbates and can have orgasms, our relationship is better but I really have no idea how to get intimacy between us started again. We went on for nearly 20 years having sex pretty much every other day But over the past few years we might’ve been together successfully five or six times. My dick just doesn’t react to her anymore. I’ve stopped my routine masturbation in hopes that that desire would go elsewhere but it really hasn’t. Anyone come off a long sex break and get things fired up again in their long-term relationship? All hope isn’t lost because she wants our sex life back as well but I just don’t know how to get out of roommate territory. submitted by /u/AdmirableCase3766 [link] [comments]
Sex life restart?
Emotional affairs on both sides, health issues on both sides have set up a pattern where in intimacy would be really sporadic, when I’m not having sex it’s sort of just shuts down and I go into maintenance mode where I jerk off every morning in the shower and just carry on with my day.
Our relationship has greatly improved, we enjoy being around each other but there’s no feeling turned on for me. A year ago we could start kissing and I could feel myself getting hard but now it’s nothing.
Hormonally I’m in good shape, I wake up with an iron erection every morning, I know she masturbates and can have orgasms, our relationship is better but I really have no idea how to get intimacy between us started again. We went on for nearly 20 years having sex pretty much every other day But over the past few years we might’ve been together successfully five or six times. My dick just doesn’t react to her anymore.
I’ve stopped my routine masturbation in hopes that that desire would go elsewhere but it really hasn’t.
Anyone come off a long sex break and get things fired up again in their long-term relationship? All hope isn’t lost because she wants our sex life back as well but I just don’t know how to get out of roommate territory.
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