I’ve been married for 2 years, we have a 1 year old. We have a good enough sex life.. I guess. I go to bed earlier than him & most of the time he rubs me to wakes me up for sex & then I use a toy after he finishes. Sometimes he helps, sometimes he’s in the bathroom cleaning up. It’s routine at this point.
I recently decided to try some dirty talk & stole some tips from a thread here, telling my husband after the baby’s bedtime “i want to mess around… and make it hurt a little” 😏 his response “what does that mean? in what way?” And honestly, the moment was gone for me. Do I really have to walk you through fucking me hard like I walk you through a recipe?
It makes me feel discouraged as a whole & I feel like giving up on the spice, but I do need it and what’s the alternative? but he is such a sweet man & I love our marriage but dude just don’t ask me questions? Is that so bad to ask? It’s like… just fuck me & I’ll tell you if it’s too much. Where do I go from here?
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r/sex I’ve been married for 2 years, we have a 1 year old. We have a good enough sex life.. I guess. I go to bed earlier than him & most of the time he rubs me to wakes me up for sex & then I use a toy after he finishes. Sometimes he helps, sometimes he’s in the bathroom cleaning up. It’s routine at this point. I recently decided to try some dirty talk & stole some tips from a thread here, telling my husband after the baby’s bedtime “i want to mess around… and make it hurt a little” 😏 his response “what does that mean? in what way?” And honestly, the moment was gone for me. Do I really have to walk you through fucking me hard like I walk you through a recipe? It makes me feel discouraged as a whole & I feel like giving up on the spice, but I do need it and what’s the alternative? but he is such a sweet man & I love our marriage but dude just don’t ask me questions? Is that so bad to ask? It’s like… just fuck me & I’ll tell you if it’s too much. Where do I go from here? submitted by /u/iamsomeonewhountilre [link] [comments]
I’ve been married for 2 years, we have a 1 year old. We have a good enough sex life.. I guess. I go to bed earlier than him & most of the time he rubs me to wakes me up for sex & then I use a toy after he finishes. Sometimes he helps, sometimes he’s in the bathroom cleaning up. It’s routine at this point.
I recently decided to try some dirty talk & stole some tips from a thread here, telling my husband after the baby’s bedtime “i want to mess around… and make it hurt a little” 😏 his response “what does that mean? in what way?” And honestly, the moment was gone for me. Do I really have to walk you through fucking me hard like I walk you through a recipe?
It makes me feel discouraged as a whole & I feel like giving up on the spice, but I do need it and what’s the alternative? but he is such a sweet man & I love our marriage but dude just don’t ask me questions? Is that so bad to ask? It’s like… just fuck me & I’ll tell you if it’s too much. Where do I go from here?
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