My boyfriend (25M) and I (26F) have been together for a bit and things are going great. He’s there for me, we get along great, he’s the cutest and the sex is amazing. I don’t think I truly made love like this before him. That being said I have been more used to kinkier play in the past and although I don’t care so much to roll out nipple clamps and butt plugs, his foreplay leaves much to be desired.
He turns me on so much and we can go for hours but he puts too much weight on making me cum with his penis and not so much anything else. If we’re fooling around kissing and I start teasing his dick, he’ll get hard and immediately grab a condom and get on top. Sometimes he’ll fumble around my clit, feel that I’m a little wet and then immediately get the condom.
I’ve showed him a few ways I like to be touched and licked and he’s done amazing in implementing them but sometimes it feels like he thinks nonpenetrative parts of sex are going above and beyond when they’re a bare minimum.
I know he’s less experienced and wants to please me. It can be a bit monotonous with positions and moves although still feeling great. He considered me flipping around and wanting it from the back as « kinky » which threw me offguard. I’m nervous that he won’t think he’s adequate if he’s making me cum with other methods other than his penis.
In an effort to open him to more, we’ve had conversations, I’ve demonstrated what I like and have mentioned my desire for anal play. I get he has some aversion to to sticking a finger in mine and I don’t know if he’d enter me completely anytime soon but I really wanna eat his ass and have him do the same. He hardly lets me touch his ass but does like when I kiss his cheeks and my tongue going down his balls. I’ve considered just going for it and seeing how he reacts. I also absolutely love anal stimulation and if there no assplay or penetration, I just really want his nice, wet tongue to graze me down there.
I’m just so horny for him and not used to hours of very passionate strokes with no in between or switching up. I want our sex to be even better and really make a splash 😂. Any advice ?
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r/sex My boyfriend (25M) and I (26F) have been together for a bit and things are going great. He’s there for me, we get along great, he’s the cutest and the sex is amazing. I don’t think I truly made love like this before him. That being said I have been more used to kinkier play in the past and although I don’t care so much to roll out nipple clamps and butt plugs, his foreplay leaves much to be desired. He turns me on so much and we can go for hours but he puts too much weight on making me cum with his penis and not so much anything else. If we’re fooling around kissing and I start teasing his dick, he’ll get hard and immediately grab a condom and get on top. Sometimes he’ll fumble around my clit, feel that I’m a little wet and then immediately get the condom. I’ve showed him a few ways I like to be touched and licked and he’s done amazing in implementing them but sometimes it feels like he thinks nonpenetrative parts of sex are going above and beyond when they’re a bare minimum. I know he’s less experienced and wants to please me. It can be a bit monotonous with positions and moves although still feeling great. He considered me flipping around and wanting it from the back as « kinky » which threw me offguard. I’m nervous that he won’t think he’s adequate if he’s making me cum with other methods other than his penis. In an effort to open him to more, we’ve had conversations, I’ve demonstrated what I like and have mentioned my desire for anal play. I get he has some aversion to to sticking a finger in mine and I don’t know if he’d enter me completely anytime soon but I really wanna eat his ass and have him do the same. He hardly lets me touch his ass but does like when I kiss his cheeks and my tongue going down his balls. I’ve considered just going for it and seeing how he reacts. I also absolutely love anal stimulation and if there no assplay or penetration, I just really want his nice, wet tongue to graze me down there. I’m just so horny for him and not used to hours of very passionate strokes with no in between or switching up. I want our sex to be even better and really make a splash 😂. Any advice ? submitted by /u/adoly10 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (25M) and I (26F) have been together for a bit and things are going great. He’s there for me, we get along great, he’s the cutest and the sex is amazing. I don’t think I truly made love like this before him. That being said I have been more used to kinkier play in the past and although I don’t care so much to roll out nipple clamps and butt plugs, his foreplay leaves much to be desired.
He turns me on so much and we can go for hours but he puts too much weight on making me cum with his penis and not so much anything else. If we’re fooling around kissing and I start teasing his dick, he’ll get hard and immediately grab a condom and get on top. Sometimes he’ll fumble around my clit, feel that I’m a little wet and then immediately get the condom.
I’ve showed him a few ways I like to be touched and licked and he’s done amazing in implementing them but sometimes it feels like he thinks nonpenetrative parts of sex are going above and beyond when they’re a bare minimum.
I know he’s less experienced and wants to please me. It can be a bit monotonous with positions and moves although still feeling great. He considered me flipping around and wanting it from the back as « kinky » which threw me offguard. I’m nervous that he won’t think he’s adequate if he’s making me cum with other methods other than his penis.
In an effort to open him to more, we’ve had conversations, I’ve demonstrated what I like and have mentioned my desire for anal play. I get he has some aversion to to sticking a finger in mine and I don’t know if he’d enter me completely anytime soon but I really wanna eat his ass and have him do the same. He hardly lets me touch his ass but does like when I kiss his cheeks and my tongue going down his balls. I’ve considered just going for it and seeing how he reacts. I also absolutely love anal stimulation and if there no assplay or penetration, I just really want his nice, wet tongue to graze me down there.
I’m just so horny for him and not used to hours of very passionate strokes with no in between or switching up. I want our sex to be even better and really make a splash 😂. Any advice ?
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