My boyfriend (46M) and I (29F) have been going through a rough patch, owing to some misaligned kinks—he’s wanted to try anal, and I’ve been on the fence about it. We were bickering over it for a number of different reasons, and finally, I decided I’d had enough and told him that I had no desire to do any butt stuff for the foreseeable future. He was fine to drop it, and things mostly went back to normal.
It wasn’t until we were having sex recently that the topic “came up” again, pretty unexpectedly. Changing positions, my boyfriend’s dick slipped out and when it went back in, it was in the wrong hole. It might’ve gotten two-thirds of the way in before I screamed in pain and he immediately pulled out. With zero prep or lubrication, it felt like absolute hell and I sobbed for a while after that. My boyfriend was extremely apologetic and said he hadn’t meant to do that. He seemed sincerely remorseful and took care of me the rest of the night, which I appreciate, but after taking some time to reflect and think about the timing of everything, I’m starting to second guess myself. Is “accidental anal” a thing for guys, or is it possible he did this deliberately? I’ve never been in this situation before and I’m not a guy, so I don’t know how it works or if there’s a chance my boyfriend’s lying to me. Any insight would be helpful.
**Edit to add: We were switching from missionary to doggy at the time – weren’t going super fast but he thrusted pretty hard going in.
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r/sex My boyfriend (46M) and I (29F) have been going through a rough patch, owing to some misaligned kinks—he’s wanted to try anal, and I’ve been on the fence about it. We were bickering over it for a number of different reasons, and finally, I decided I’d had enough and told him that I had no desire to do any butt stuff for the foreseeable future. He was fine to drop it, and things mostly went back to normal. It wasn’t until we were having sex recently that the topic “came up” again, pretty unexpectedly. Changing positions, my boyfriend’s dick slipped out and when it went back in, it was in the wrong hole. It might’ve gotten two-thirds of the way in before I screamed in pain and he immediately pulled out. With zero prep or lubrication, it felt like absolute hell and I sobbed for a while after that. My boyfriend was extremely apologetic and said he hadn’t meant to do that. He seemed sincerely remorseful and took care of me the rest of the night, which I appreciate, but after taking some time to reflect and think about the timing of everything, I’m starting to second guess myself. Is “accidental anal” a thing for guys, or is it possible he did this deliberately? I’ve never been in this situation before and I’m not a guy, so I don’t know how it works or if there’s a chance my boyfriend’s lying to me. Any insight would be helpful. **Edit to add: We were switching from missionary to doggy at the time – weren’t going super fast but he thrusted pretty hard going in. submitted by /u/gwenny468 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (46M) and I (29F) have been going through a rough patch, owing to some misaligned kinks—he’s wanted to try anal, and I’ve been on the fence about it. We were bickering over it for a number of different reasons, and finally, I decided I’d had enough and told him that I had no desire to do any butt stuff for the foreseeable future. He was fine to drop it, and things mostly went back to normal.
It wasn’t until we were having sex recently that the topic “came up” again, pretty unexpectedly. Changing positions, my boyfriend’s dick slipped out and when it went back in, it was in the wrong hole. It might’ve gotten two-thirds of the way in before I screamed in pain and he immediately pulled out. With zero prep or lubrication, it felt like absolute hell and I sobbed for a while after that. My boyfriend was extremely apologetic and said he hadn’t meant to do that. He seemed sincerely remorseful and took care of me the rest of the night, which I appreciate, but after taking some time to reflect and think about the timing of everything, I’m starting to second guess myself. Is “accidental anal” a thing for guys, or is it possible he did this deliberately? I’ve never been in this situation before and I’m not a guy, so I don’t know how it works or if there’s a chance my boyfriend’s lying to me. Any insight would be helpful.
**Edit to add: We were switching from missionary to doggy at the time – weren’t going super fast but he thrusted pretty hard going in.
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