I’m (53f) having a bit of guilt about having a sex life after my husband’s death three years ago.
He had a long battle with cancer, and I had no interest in dating until about three months ago, when my daughter helped me get on the apps. Once I started, my libido returned with a vengeance. Fast forward to today, I have no interest in a relationship but I have three men I’m in casual sexual relationships with.
My hookups always happen at my place, in my bed. That’s where I’m comfortable, but also I have a little guilt about. It’s purely sexual, and I feel like I have a wild side that’s come out of me – my husband and I had a nice but vanilla sex life, but I find myself being sexually wild and uninhibited with these men. I’ve learned to love giving pleasure, receiving pleasure, no baggage. I sometimes make booty calls and then kick them out when we’re done.
This is what I need in my life right now but sometimes I wonder if I’m out of control. One of the guys is 32 (eek) and I love making him crazy, and I love that he tells his friends. This is so out of character for me.
Advice or perspective would be welcome.
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r/sex I’m (53f) having a bit of guilt about having a sex life after my husband’s death three years ago. He had a long battle with cancer, and I had no interest in dating until about three months ago, when my daughter helped me get on the apps. Once I started, my libido returned with a vengeance. Fast forward to today, I have no interest in a relationship but I have three men I’m in casual sexual relationships with. My hookups always happen at my place, in my bed. That’s where I’m comfortable, but also I have a little guilt about. It’s purely sexual, and I feel like I have a wild side that’s come out of me – my husband and I had a nice but vanilla sex life, but I find myself being sexually wild and uninhibited with these men. I’ve learned to love giving pleasure, receiving pleasure, no baggage. I sometimes make booty calls and then kick them out when we’re done. This is what I need in my life right now but sometimes I wonder if I’m out of control. One of the guys is 32 (eek) and I love making him crazy, and I love that he tells his friends. This is so out of character for me. Advice or perspective would be welcome. submitted by /u/Histo2211 [link] [comments]
I’m (53f) having a bit of guilt about having a sex life after my husband’s death three years ago.
He had a long battle with cancer, and I had no interest in dating until about three months ago, when my daughter helped me get on the apps. Once I started, my libido returned with a vengeance. Fast forward to today, I have no interest in a relationship but I have three men I’m in casual sexual relationships with.
My hookups always happen at my place, in my bed. That’s where I’m comfortable, but also I have a little guilt about. It’s purely sexual, and I feel like I have a wild side that’s come out of me – my husband and I had a nice but vanilla sex life, but I find myself being sexually wild and uninhibited with these men. I’ve learned to love giving pleasure, receiving pleasure, no baggage. I sometimes make booty calls and then kick them out when we’re done.
This is what I need in my life right now but sometimes I wonder if I’m out of control. One of the guys is 32 (eek) and I love making him crazy, and I love that he tells his friends. This is so out of character for me.
Advice or perspective would be welcome.
submitted by /u/Histo2211
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