I (25F) have been struggling with the idea and act of sex since having a baby 8 weeks ago. Well last night, I decided to initiate it with my husband for the first time in a while (usually he’s the one initiating) and on the first round I felt like he wanted me on top so that he wouldn’t have to focus on me? I know that sounds weird, but it’s what my brain was convincing me at the time. He reassured me, and then while we were cuddling we started saying really loving things to each other like: “if I could redo anything in this life, it would be—“ “to meet you sooner?” “Absolutely..” and then he spontaneously kissed me and we go into round 2. The difference with round 2 was that before we even got really into it at all, I felt a sense of being light and electric. Like I had a tingling sensation all throughout my body. I’ve never felt that before, and it made me wonder if it was my first time feeling a sense of euphoria and it made me fall in love with the intimate act all over again. I don’t think I’ve felt it before in our relationship, and part of me is wondering if it was the kind words or the spontaneity of it all.. I really wanna try to achieve that feeling with him again, but I’m not sure what triggered it to begin with. Any ideas on what could’ve caused it given the circumstances?
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r/sex I (25F) have been struggling with the idea and act of sex since having a baby 8 weeks ago. Well last night, I decided to initiate it with my husband for the first time in a while (usually he’s the one initiating) and on the first round I felt like he wanted me on top so that he wouldn’t have to focus on me? I know that sounds weird, but it’s what my brain was convincing me at the time. He reassured me, and then while we were cuddling we started saying really loving things to each other like: “if I could redo anything in this life, it would be—“ “to meet you sooner?” “Absolutely..” and then he spontaneously kissed me and we go into round 2. The difference with round 2 was that before we even got really into it at all, I felt a sense of being light and electric. Like I had a tingling sensation all throughout my body. I’ve never felt that before, and it made me wonder if it was my first time feeling a sense of euphoria and it made me fall in love with the intimate act all over again. I don’t think I’ve felt it before in our relationship, and part of me is wondering if it was the kind words or the spontaneity of it all.. I really wanna try to achieve that feeling with him again, but I’m not sure what triggered it to begin with. Any ideas on what could’ve caused it given the circumstances? submitted by /u/Bearriguess [link] [comments]
I (25F) have been struggling with the idea and act of sex since having a baby 8 weeks ago. Well last night, I decided to initiate it with my husband for the first time in a while (usually he’s the one initiating) and on the first round I felt like he wanted me on top so that he wouldn’t have to focus on me? I know that sounds weird, but it’s what my brain was convincing me at the time. He reassured me, and then while we were cuddling we started saying really loving things to each other like: “if I could redo anything in this life, it would be—“ “to meet you sooner?” “Absolutely..” and then he spontaneously kissed me and we go into round 2. The difference with round 2 was that before we even got really into it at all, I felt a sense of being light and electric. Like I had a tingling sensation all throughout my body. I’ve never felt that before, and it made me wonder if it was my first time feeling a sense of euphoria and it made me fall in love with the intimate act all over again. I don’t think I’ve felt it before in our relationship, and part of me is wondering if it was the kind words or the spontaneity of it all.. I really wanna try to achieve that feeling with him again, but I’m not sure what triggered it to begin with. Any ideas on what could’ve caused it given the circumstances?
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