My husband and I started talking about fantasies about a year ago and we discovered that we were both curious about bringing other people into bedroom with us. It first started as sexy talk, but eventually morphed into more serious conversations. We had been discussing this for a while and finally decided that we were both comfortable looking for potential partners. Once we started talking and looking for other partners, things between my husband and I were very spicy and we were both turned on in ways we have never felt. The day finally came that we were going to meet our first couple and my husband got cold feet and was even offended that I did not have cold feet. He said he didn’t want to do this anymore and that he was done and I did not object. Even after all of this, my husband couldn’t help himself by ‘joking about it’ and was still looking. He approached me a few days later about another couple that he had found and told me that he had already set a date for us to meet. Two days before we were to meet this new couple, my husband approached me and said that again he was not down to do this and that he had already messaged the couple to let them know. He almost again seemed angry with me that I was okay with the situation and was not getting cold feet. Now I’m lost because I feel like this is something that he really wants and fantasies about, but he’s battling with the idea as a whole. I have dropped the subject altogether, but things between us seem off and weird. Is it normal in these situations to go back and forth like this? Advice please?
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r/sex My husband and I started talking about fantasies about a year ago and we discovered that we were both curious about bringing other people into bedroom with us. It first started as sexy talk, but eventually morphed into more serious conversations. We had been discussing this for a while and finally decided that we were both comfortable looking for potential partners. Once we started talking and looking for other partners, things between my husband and I were very spicy and we were both turned on in ways we have never felt. The day finally came that we were going to meet our first couple and my husband got cold feet and was even offended that I did not have cold feet. He said he didn’t want to do this anymore and that he was done and I did not object. Even after all of this, my husband couldn’t help himself by ‘joking about it’ and was still looking. He approached me a few days later about another couple that he had found and told me that he had already set a date for us to meet. Two days before we were to meet this new couple, my husband approached me and said that again he was not down to do this and that he had already messaged the couple to let them know. He almost again seemed angry with me that I was okay with the situation and was not getting cold feet. Now I’m lost because I feel like this is something that he really wants and fantasies about, but he’s battling with the idea as a whole. I have dropped the subject altogether, but things between us seem off and weird. Is it normal in these situations to go back and forth like this? Advice please? submitted by /u/Top_Survey1213 [link] [comments]
My husband and I started talking about fantasies about a year ago and we discovered that we were both curious about bringing other people into bedroom with us. It first started as sexy talk, but eventually morphed into more serious conversations. We had been discussing this for a while and finally decided that we were both comfortable looking for potential partners. Once we started talking and looking for other partners, things between my husband and I were very spicy and we were both turned on in ways we have never felt. The day finally came that we were going to meet our first couple and my husband got cold feet and was even offended that I did not have cold feet. He said he didn’t want to do this anymore and that he was done and I did not object. Even after all of this, my husband couldn’t help himself by ‘joking about it’ and was still looking. He approached me a few days later about another couple that he had found and told me that he had already set a date for us to meet. Two days before we were to meet this new couple, my husband approached me and said that again he was not down to do this and that he had already messaged the couple to let them know. He almost again seemed angry with me that I was okay with the situation and was not getting cold feet. Now I’m lost because I feel like this is something that he really wants and fantasies about, but he’s battling with the idea as a whole. I have dropped the subject altogether, but things between us seem off and weird. Is it normal in these situations to go back and forth like this? Advice please?
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