someone please give me some advice /u/Ok_VoK Sex

so my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 almost 3 years now. in the beginning both of our sex drives were VERY high, and of course I was absolutely obsessed with him and i’m still VERY MUCH obsessed with him. I love him more than anything.

About a year ago I started taking medication which completely drained my sex drive and ironically he started taking medication that increased his sex drive even more. So how he wants to have sex constantly. And I mean CONSTANTLY. Like 5 or 6 times a day every day.

It was the same way in the beginning, but now that my sex drive is way lower than it used to be, i’m never in the mood. He always makes sure I finish, even if I’m not in the mood. But this isn’t the problem.

The problem is that when he wants to have sex, he WANTS TO have sex. If I tell him i’m not in the mood, he just keeps asking. Lately i’ve been going through a depression phase because i’m self-employed yet I feel like my business is at a stand still. When he asks me what’s wrong and I tell him i’m just really depressed and that I just wanna watch a movie, he STILL asks if I wanna have sex. And again if I say i’m not in the mood, he’ll still ask me to pleasure him.

He just doesn’t take no for an answer, and then if I really tell him no he’ll guilt trip me and say “you never wanna have sex, I don’t know why we’re even together, etc etc”

We’re both completely in love with each other, our souls are literally tied together and aside from this, he is an absolute sweetheart. He treats me with so much respect and is definitely my one true love.

I just don’t know what to do. Right now i’m really depressed and he STILL won’t take no for an answer. And when I say he won’t take no for an answer I don’t mean he forces anything, he would never. He just gets moody and then makes me feel guilty. I’m at the point of tears.

so my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 almost 3 years now. in the beginning both of our sex drives were VERY high, and of course I was absolutely obsessed with him and i’m still VERY MUCH obsessed with him. I love him more than anything.

About a year ago I started taking medication which completely drained my sex drive and ironically he started taking medication that increased his sex drive even more. So how he wants to have sex constantly. And I mean CONSTANTLY. Like 5 or 6 times a day every day.

It was the same way in the beginning, but now that my sex drive is way lower than it used to be, i’m never in the mood. He always makes sure I finish, even if I’m not in the mood. But this isn’t the problem.

The problem is that when he wants to have sex, he WANTS TO have sex. If I tell him i’m not in the mood, he just keeps asking. Lately i’ve been going through a depression phase because i’m self-employed yet I feel like my business is at a stand still. When he asks me what’s wrong and I tell him i’m just really depressed and that I just wanna watch a movie, he STILL asks if I wanna have sex. And again if I say i’m not in the mood, he’ll still ask me to pleasure him.

He just doesn’t take no for an answer, and then if I really tell him no he’ll guilt trip me and say “you never wanna have sex, I don’t know why we’re even together, etc etc”

We’re both completely in love with each other, our souls are literally tied together and aside from this, he is an absolute sweetheart. He treats me with so much respect and is definitely my one true love.

I just don’t know what to do. Right now i’m really depressed and he STILL won’t take no for an answer. And when I say he won’t take no for an answer I don’t mean he forces anything, he would never. He just gets moody and then makes me feel guilty. I’m at the point of tears.