My husband (34) and I (33 f) have had our fair share of sexual problems. They are many and of a wide variety, but our main sexual problems are that my husband seems so disinterested in me in any manner (sexually, blow jobs, dates, talking, etc. ) and this disinterest make my sex life hell. Against, maybe my better judgements, I have initiated much of our sex through our marriage and especially recently. I do enjoy giving blow jobs even without reciprocation, but it’s been months since I’ve cum. At least a couple months, and I get so pent up. I try not to masterbate, since my husband finds it so disrespectful and he’s very insecure but, damn, I get so crazy horny I’m afraid I’m gonna start throwing myself at men. Tonight after sex and I didn’t cum again I suggested maybe I could start just giving hot blowjobs whenever he wants and I could masterbate whenever I felt the urge but he was so upset. How could I persuade him that him getting blowjobs is just as satisfactory as intercourse? And how can I help him see that him masturbating and me masturbating is the exact same thing?
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r/sex My husband (34) and I (33 f) have had our fair share of sexual problems. They are many and of a wide variety, but our main sexual problems are that my husband seems so disinterested in me in any manner (sexually, blow jobs, dates, talking, etc. ) and this disinterest make my sex life hell. Against, maybe my better judgements, I have initiated much of our sex through our marriage and especially recently. I do enjoy giving blow jobs even without reciprocation, but it’s been months since I’ve cum. At least a couple months, and I get so pent up. I try not to masterbate, since my husband finds it so disrespectful and he’s very insecure but, damn, I get so crazy horny I’m afraid I’m gonna start throwing myself at men. Tonight after sex and I didn’t cum again I suggested maybe I could start just giving hot blowjobs whenever he wants and I could masterbate whenever I felt the urge but he was so upset. How could I persuade him that him getting blowjobs is just as satisfactory as intercourse? And how can I help him see that him masturbating and me masturbating is the exact same thing? submitted by /u/Civil-Ad-50 [link] [comments]
My husband (34) and I (33 f) have had our fair share of sexual problems. They are many and of a wide variety, but our main sexual problems are that my husband seems so disinterested in me in any manner (sexually, blow jobs, dates, talking, etc. ) and this disinterest make my sex life hell. Against, maybe my better judgements, I have initiated much of our sex through our marriage and especially recently. I do enjoy giving blow jobs even without reciprocation, but it’s been months since I’ve cum. At least a couple months, and I get so pent up. I try not to masterbate, since my husband finds it so disrespectful and he’s very insecure but, damn, I get so crazy horny I’m afraid I’m gonna start throwing myself at men. Tonight after sex and I didn’t cum again I suggested maybe I could start just giving hot blowjobs whenever he wants and I could masterbate whenever I felt the urge but he was so upset. How could I persuade him that him getting blowjobs is just as satisfactory as intercourse? And how can I help him see that him masturbating and me masturbating is the exact same thing?
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