Hi, so I need some advice. I (18F) haven’t had penetrative sex in around 10 months? now and have honestly missed being penetrated. However, I have some issues. I enjoy penetration with my fingers and it feels good, but it doesn’t feel like I can get my fingers quite deep enough as I have quite small and short hands. I tried using a dildo with lube for the first time in a good year and it.. didn’t go well. Even with a lot of lube, it burned to get it in. It wasn’t enjoyable and after taking it out it burned so bad it was making my eyes water slightly. I believe it was a mixture of the dildo being too wide for me to handle after a while of being inactive, as well as the fact the lube I was using irritated me due to having sensitive skin. The dildo I used was a pretty standard silicone dildo, with 6” length and it felt quite big to me tbh. Does anyone have some good recommendations for smaller dildos and suitable lubes for sensitive skin? Any kind of recommendations to help with this would be appreciated. Thanks 🙂
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r/sex Hi, so I need some advice. I (18F) haven’t had penetrative sex in around 10 months? now and have honestly missed being penetrated. However, I have some issues. I enjoy penetration with my fingers and it feels good, but it doesn’t feel like I can get my fingers quite deep enough as I have quite small and short hands. I tried using a dildo with lube for the first time in a good year and it.. didn’t go well. Even with a lot of lube, it burned to get it in. It wasn’t enjoyable and after taking it out it burned so bad it was making my eyes water slightly. I believe it was a mixture of the dildo being too wide for me to handle after a while of being inactive, as well as the fact the lube I was using irritated me due to having sensitive skin. The dildo I used was a pretty standard silicone dildo, with 6” length and it felt quite big to me tbh. Does anyone have some good recommendations for smaller dildos and suitable lubes for sensitive skin? Any kind of recommendations to help with this would be appreciated. Thanks 🙂 submitted by /u/pvppypaw [link] [comments]
Hi, so I need some advice. I (18F) haven’t had penetrative sex in around 10 months? now and have honestly missed being penetrated. However, I have some issues. I enjoy penetration with my fingers and it feels good, but it doesn’t feel like I can get my fingers quite deep enough as I have quite small and short hands. I tried using a dildo with lube for the first time in a good year and it.. didn’t go well. Even with a lot of lube, it burned to get it in. It wasn’t enjoyable and after taking it out it burned so bad it was making my eyes water slightly. I believe it was a mixture of the dildo being too wide for me to handle after a while of being inactive, as well as the fact the lube I was using irritated me due to having sensitive skin. The dildo I used was a pretty standard silicone dildo, with 6” length and it felt quite big to me tbh. Does anyone have some good recommendations for smaller dildos and suitable lubes for sensitive skin? Any kind of recommendations to help with this would be appreciated. Thanks 🙂
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