My partner forgets my needs /u/girlygirlsproblems12 Sex

I 19F have been seeing a friend of mine 20M from an old school we used to go to together. We recently started becoming intimate and while I do really like him I find that he is coming way too fast and then forgets about my needs. I am very shy and am having a hard time telling him what I like and how I want him to do stuff. I also feel that he is not the best at sex and I of course want to help him so I can also get some pleasure from our time together. Like I said I really like this man and want to be in a relationship with him, but this issue is kind of holding me back a little. Any advice on how I can talk to him about it? I find sex talk with men in general very border crossing because I have had some pretty bad experiences in the past.

I 19F have been seeing a friend of mine 20M from an old school we used to go to together. We recently started becoming intimate and while I do really like him I find that he is coming way too fast and then forgets about my needs. I am very shy and am having a hard time telling him what I like and how I want him to do stuff. I also feel that he is not the best at sex and I of course want to help him so I can also get some pleasure from our time together. Like I said I really like this man and want to be in a relationship with him, but this issue is kind of holding me back a little. Any advice on how I can talk to him about it? I find sex talk with men in general very border crossing because I have had some pretty bad experiences in the past.