Hey everyone, I 29 year old female have been with my amazing boyfriend 30 for 2 years. I can confidently say that we have a loving healthy relationship. We currently don’t live together as he lives with his family and i live with mine . We’ve always had a healthy sex life in the sense that we care about each others needs, desires, satisfaction. We’re both open to trying new things, positions , etc . Now of course i know that the beginning of a relationship is always more exiting and the honey moon phase. I can say we are both always affectionate with each other, miss each other when we’re away. I can’t be as spontaneous with sex as i would like because the only time we can have sex is when his family is asleep at night which is fine!
Ive seen many posts asking about suggestions on how a woman can initiate sex better and so many of the responses are things like , just get naked , rub his crotch , tell him you want him, start kissing him and touching him, wear lingerie . Which i agree all sounds great and direct , but that’s more when ur initiating to do it at that moment .
I wanted to know specifically for the men if there’s anything a woman has done or ur partner that will get u fantasizing & anticipating sex awhile before it happens . Now i know some of you will say to just ask him , but i love the element of surprise . If i do ask him what will get him excited before hand he will know it’s coming and we are the type to try new things first and decide after if we like it or not .
I regularly send him nudes on days we don’t se each other. But usually on the days we do see each other we will go out for the day to eat, do activities, etc and then end our nights cuddling and watching movies . I’m wondering if there’s anything a woman can do hours before sex to really get a man anticipating the night .
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r/sex Hey everyone, I 29 year old female have been with my amazing boyfriend 30 for 2 years. I can confidently say that we have a loving healthy relationship. We currently don’t live together as he lives with his family and i live with mine . We’ve always had a healthy sex life in the sense that we care about each others needs, desires, satisfaction. We’re both open to trying new things, positions , etc . Now of course i know that the beginning of a relationship is always more exiting and the honey moon phase. I can say we are both always affectionate with each other, miss each other when we’re away. I can’t be as spontaneous with sex as i would like because the only time we can have sex is when his family is asleep at night which is fine! Ive seen many posts asking about suggestions on how a woman can initiate sex better and so many of the responses are things like , just get naked , rub his crotch , tell him you want him, start kissing him and touching him, wear lingerie . Which i agree all sounds great and direct , but that’s more when ur initiating to do it at that moment . I wanted to know specifically for the men if there’s anything a woman has done or ur partner that will get u fantasizing & anticipating sex awhile before it happens . Now i know some of you will say to just ask him , but i love the element of surprise . If i do ask him what will get him excited before hand he will know it’s coming and we are the type to try new things first and decide after if we like it or not . I regularly send him nudes on days we don’t se each other. But usually on the days we do see each other we will go out for the day to eat, do activities, etc and then end our nights cuddling and watching movies . I’m wondering if there’s anything a woman can do hours before sex to really get a man anticipating the night . submitted by /u/newgirl222 [link] [comments]
Hey everyone, I 29 year old female have been with my amazing boyfriend 30 for 2 years. I can confidently say that we have a loving healthy relationship. We currently don’t live together as he lives with his family and i live with mine . We’ve always had a healthy sex life in the sense that we care about each others needs, desires, satisfaction. We’re both open to trying new things, positions , etc . Now of course i know that the beginning of a relationship is always more exiting and the honey moon phase. I can say we are both always affectionate with each other, miss each other when we’re away. I can’t be as spontaneous with sex as i would like because the only time we can have sex is when his family is asleep at night which is fine!
Ive seen many posts asking about suggestions on how a woman can initiate sex better and so many of the responses are things like , just get naked , rub his crotch , tell him you want him, start kissing him and touching him, wear lingerie . Which i agree all sounds great and direct , but that’s more when ur initiating to do it at that moment .
I wanted to know specifically for the men if there’s anything a woman has done or ur partner that will get u fantasizing & anticipating sex awhile before it happens . Now i know some of you will say to just ask him , but i love the element of surprise . If i do ask him what will get him excited before hand he will know it’s coming and we are the type to try new things first and decide after if we like it or not .
I regularly send him nudes on days we don’t se each other. But usually on the days we do see each other we will go out for the day to eat, do activities, etc and then end our nights cuddling and watching movies . I’m wondering if there’s anything a woman can do hours before sex to really get a man anticipating the night .
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