I couldn’t feel anything while having sex… /u/eatthecherry Sex

A couple weeks ago I went out partying with some friends. In the party I (F25) met the most gorgeous man (31) I’ve seen. Alcohol gave me the confidence (I wasn’t drunk, just tipsy enough to be brave) to approach him. We began talking and he bought me a drink. There wasn’t and instant connection but we were definitely vibing.

We went outside a couple of times, where the first time he kissed me. When we went back in, we kept dancing and making out. One of the times we went out I suggested we could go back to his place and he agreed.

This is where things went south (it wasn’t that bad but) when we were down doing it I COULD NOT FEEL ANYTHING. Usually my boobs are sensitive and a good spot but I could not feel anything when he touched or licked them. Then he was giving me oral… I could not feel anything. Like I can’t even tell what exactly he was licking down there… and like I could not feel even the fingering. He was really amazing, caring and like was doing everything “right” but I just couldn’t feel it. I tried riding him but I not even that. I didn’t feel anything (and trust me, it wasn’t a size issue).

I’m so mad that I couldn’t enjoy this moment. Like he was the most objectively attractive guy I’ve been with, he checked all my physique boxes and he even was a decent human, nice conversation, caring, like WHY WOULD THAT HAPPEN TO ME? I’m not on any medication and this is the first time that something like this happens.

I don’t even know what I’m expecting out of this post. Maybe I’m just venting, but if you’ve had some similar experience and have something to share that will make me feel not as alone or… like I even feel bad about it? And I don’t understand why. So if you have something to add or you just want to share your story with me or if you have a hypothesis on why this could’ve been, please share.

A couple weeks ago I went out partying with some friends. In the party I (F25) met the most gorgeous man (31) I’ve seen. Alcohol gave me the confidence (I wasn’t drunk, just tipsy enough to be brave) to approach him. We began talking and he bought me a drink. There wasn’t and instant connection but we were definitely vibing.

We went outside a couple of times, where the first time he kissed me. When we went back in, we kept dancing and making out. One of the times we went out I suggested we could go back to his place and he agreed.

This is where things went south (it wasn’t that bad but) when we were down doing it I COULD NOT FEEL ANYTHING. Usually my boobs are sensitive and a good spot but I could not feel anything when he touched or licked them. Then he was giving me oral… I could not feel anything. Like I can’t even tell what exactly he was licking down there… and like I could not feel even the fingering. He was really amazing, caring and like was doing everything “right” but I just couldn’t feel it. I tried riding him but I not even that. I didn’t feel anything (and trust me, it wasn’t a size issue).

I’m so mad that I couldn’t enjoy this moment. Like he was the most objectively attractive guy I’ve been with, he checked all my physique boxes and he even was a decent human, nice conversation, caring, like WHY WOULD THAT HAPPEN TO ME? I’m not on any medication and this is the first time that something like this happens.

I don’t even know what I’m expecting out of this post. Maybe I’m just venting, but if you’ve had some similar experience and have something to share that will make me feel not as alone or… like I even feel bad about it? And I don’t understand why. So if you have something to add or you just want to share your story with me or if you have a hypothesis on why this could’ve been, please share.