Why does sex only feel good to me when there’s no condom? /u/Plenty-Pea-9320 Sex

I 18M struggle to enjoy sex when using a condom, I’ve had sex with three girls (multiple times with each) so far and every single time I take forever to finish. I don’t know why but condoms completely ruin it for me, even pausing to put it on ruins it. It feels like being inside on a rainy day. I’m more of a pleaser so I love eating them out but once I put the condom on and get inside, I start overthinking because i genuinely don’t feel an ounce of pleasure and I get worried that they don’t feel it either. And it throws me off completely. I get too concerned with how the girls feel since I’m a pleaser. How do I fix this? I’m too nervous to ask them which is funny. Is there a different type of condom that allows you to actually feel something? I use Trojan magnums and they often feel tight.

I 18M struggle to enjoy sex when using a condom, I’ve had sex with three girls (multiple times with each) so far and every single time I take forever to finish. I don’t know why but condoms completely ruin it for me, even pausing to put it on ruins it. It feels like being inside on a rainy day. I’m more of a pleaser so I love eating them out but once I put the condom on and get inside, I start overthinking because i genuinely don’t feel an ounce of pleasure and I get worried that they don’t feel it either. And it throws me off completely. I get too concerned with how the girls feel since I’m a pleaser. How do I fix this? I’m too nervous to ask them which is funny. Is there a different type of condom that allows you to actually feel something? I use Trojan magnums and they often feel tight.