Not sure how to get my gf to my house for sex or even non-sex related /u/NegativeAd9677 Sex

For context | (20F) and my girlfriend (20F) have been dating for over a year now. Before we were dating she was opposed to the idea of having sex with anyone at all but after a couple of months she told me that she’s been wanting to. I would like to make it clear that I had absolutely no play in pushing her towards this, I never mentioned the topic at all to her and she came to that conclusion on her own. Since then we’ve fooled around a little when we have the opportunity but never have actually done it, and for a while l’ve been trying to bring her to my house so we can go all the way. We live about an hour and 20 minutes away from each other via transit and every time we’ve hung out I’ve been the one to go meet her. We can’t do much of anything at her house because of her strict-ish parents and living space. I have no complaints traveling the distance since I don’t mind the transportation system.

All of this to say if we were to do anything, even just to hang out in private without sex it would have to be at my house. Now l’ve tried incentivizing her to come to me for any reason sex related or not (I have several things at my house she’s interested in) but nothing seems to work. Every time I bring it up jokingly or seriously it’s “That’s so far though” and “But you’re so far away” and honestly after a dozen times it’s starting to bother me. I understand that it’s far but it’s not like she’d be driving (train) and l’ve offered to pay for her ticket and I’m sure my parents would drive her back if she felt unsafe going back at night. It’s frustrating to be doing the traveling every time and to have the idea of her doing it basically shot down immediately. It’s also frustrating to have never done anything more after over a year. I’ve been trying my best to be patient since the prospect is new to her but admittedly it’s annoying being told both that she wants to do it but also is reluctant to actually making it happen.

So in the end, how should I go about broaching a conversation about this? I’ve run out of ideas on how to “get past the wall” and I don’t want to come across as though this is unreasonably important to me.

EDIT: For more context that I forgot, my parents are actually really open to the idea of having her over and keep telling me to invite her, and her parents have been somewhat open as well since they’ve realized I’ve been the one going to her so that’s not much of a factor either.

For context | (20F) and my girlfriend (20F) have been dating for over a year now. Before we were dating she was opposed to the idea of having sex with anyone at all but after a couple of months she told me that she’s been wanting to. I would like to make it clear that I had absolutely no play in pushing her towards this, I never mentioned the topic at all to her and she came to that conclusion on her own. Since then we’ve fooled around a little when we have the opportunity but never have actually done it, and for a while l’ve been trying to bring her to my house so we can go all the way. We live about an hour and 20 minutes away from each other via transit and every time we’ve hung out I’ve been the one to go meet her. We can’t do much of anything at her house because of her strict-ish parents and living space. I have no complaints traveling the distance since I don’t mind the transportation system.

All of this to say if we were to do anything, even just to hang out in private without sex it would have to be at my house. Now l’ve tried incentivizing her to come to me for any reason sex related or not (I have several things at my house she’s interested in) but nothing seems to work. Every time I bring it up jokingly or seriously it’s “That’s so far though” and “But you’re so far away” and honestly after a dozen times it’s starting to bother me. I understand that it’s far but it’s not like she’d be driving (train) and l’ve offered to pay for her ticket and I’m sure my parents would drive her back if she felt unsafe going back at night. It’s frustrating to be doing the traveling every time and to have the idea of her doing it basically shot down immediately. It’s also frustrating to have never done anything more after over a year. I’ve been trying my best to be patient since the prospect is new to her but admittedly it’s annoying being told both that she wants to do it but also is reluctant to actually making it happen.

So in the end, how should I go about broaching a conversation about this? I’ve run out of ideas on how to “get past the wall” and I don’t want to come across as though this is unreasonably important to me.

EDIT: For more context that I forgot, my parents are actually really open to the idea of having her over and keep telling me to invite her, and her parents have been somewhat open as well since they’ve realized I’ve been the one going to her so that’s not much of a factor either.