I (F) am a very shy person when it comes to discussing sex but deep down am very sexual. I love anal play and want to try it with my partner (M) because so far I’ve only done anal play by myself.
My boyfriend is very happy with regular sex and has never expressed any wishes and kinks besides some light spanking and hair pulling. He never expressed interested or desire to try any butt stuff and I am over the stage of waiting for him to suggest it and need to make the move. But I’m too shy to ask him to go for it.
He occasionally licks my butt or touches it while fingering me but he has never even tried t put a finger inside. I’m worried he isn’t into the idea of trying.
I ordered a really pretty anal play set with some anal beads, 3 small plugs, lube and an eye mask. I would love to try it with him but I don’t know what to do and how to do it. I’d love to also perform a little striptease for him but I am so shy I can never be my true kinky myself and talk about those things. I’m okay with just using the toys and having regular sex, it doesn’t need to lead to anal but I want to let him know that I am very much down for it.
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r/sex I (F) am a very shy person when it comes to discussing sex but deep down am very sexual. I love anal play and want to try it with my partner (M) because so far I’ve only done anal play by myself. My boyfriend is very happy with regular sex and has never expressed any wishes and kinks besides some light spanking and hair pulling. He never expressed interested or desire to try any butt stuff and I am over the stage of waiting for him to suggest it and need to make the move. But I’m too shy to ask him to go for it. He occasionally licks my butt or touches it while fingering me but he has never even tried t put a finger inside. I’m worried he isn’t into the idea of trying. I ordered a really pretty anal play set with some anal beads, 3 small plugs, lube and an eye mask. I would love to try it with him but I don’t know what to do and how to do it. I’d love to also perform a little striptease for him but I am so shy I can never be my true kinky myself and talk about those things. I’m okay with just using the toys and having regular sex, it doesn’t need to lead to anal but I want to let him know that I am very much down for it. submitted by /u/flowllie [link] [comments]
I (F) am a very shy person when it comes to discussing sex but deep down am very sexual. I love anal play and want to try it with my partner (M) because so far I’ve only done anal play by myself.
My boyfriend is very happy with regular sex and has never expressed any wishes and kinks besides some light spanking and hair pulling. He never expressed interested or desire to try any butt stuff and I am over the stage of waiting for him to suggest it and need to make the move. But I’m too shy to ask him to go for it.
He occasionally licks my butt or touches it while fingering me but he has never even tried t put a finger inside. I’m worried he isn’t into the idea of trying.
I ordered a really pretty anal play set with some anal beads, 3 small plugs, lube and an eye mask. I would love to try it with him but I don’t know what to do and how to do it. I’d love to also perform a little striptease for him but I am so shy I can never be my true kinky myself and talk about those things. I’m okay with just using the toys and having regular sex, it doesn’t need to lead to anal but I want to let him know that I am very much down for it.
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