I don’t get wet enough and sex becomes painful /u/positivelypai Sex

Despite being sexually aroused, my body barely produces its own lubrication. Possibly a side effect of my meds, but it makes me super self conscious. My boyfriend and I end up having to use lube every time or the friction is too much. It’s inconvenient when we find ourselves in a situation where we want to have sex, but do not have lube available.

My issue is that he takes a while to release so sex for us can last anywhere from 30 minutes or more. Regardless of how much lube we use, it only seems to last a few minutes before the friction starts again and I’ll get very sore and it begins to hurt when he moves inside me.

I crave sex with him, but I tend to not act upon the urges because of this issue.

Right now we use astroglide waterbed lube, but I’m wondering if there are other alternatives that don’t “dry up” as quickly or if there is anything else we can do aside from just lube.

Despite being sexually aroused, my body barely produces its own lubrication. Possibly a side effect of my meds, but it makes me super self conscious. My boyfriend and I end up having to use lube every time or the friction is too much. It’s inconvenient when we find ourselves in a situation where we want to have sex, but do not have lube available.

My issue is that he takes a while to release so sex for us can last anywhere from 30 minutes or more. Regardless of how much lube we use, it only seems to last a few minutes before the friction starts again and I’ll get very sore and it begins to hurt when he moves inside me.

I crave sex with him, but I tend to not act upon the urges because of this issue.

Right now we use astroglide waterbed lube, but I’m wondering if there are other alternatives that don’t “dry up” as quickly or if there is anything else we can do aside from just lube.