Okay so this is not easy to write but I never had vaginal orgasm and I am looking for some help on what to do.
I am trying to explore my body with fingers but also nothing so I gave up on that. I will buy masturbator and try with that in a few weeks. The only time I orgasm is if I grind my vagina on a chair or sitting on a hard pillow. I also did it a few times with my ex boyfriend while I was on top of him also through grinding but other than that, nothing.
I had a few partners and I can distinguish which sex was bad and which one was great, also with whom I have great sexual chemistry. I am open to literally everything in the bedroom and I can talk open about it yet I am still uncomfortable saying I never had vaginal orgasm and I am uncomfortable to tell how I can achive one (which I suppose is clitorial one). I don’t feel good saying I can’t achive orgasm while touching myself because I am a little scared what he might think. Also I would be thinking he probably thinks it is taking me way too long if I am on top of him…
For refrence I am 30 and the guy I am seeing is 40+.
Thank you and please be kind.
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r/sex Okay so this is not easy to write but I never had vaginal orgasm and I am looking for some help on what to do. I am trying to explore my body with fingers but also nothing so I gave up on that. I will buy masturbator and try with that in a few weeks. The only time I orgasm is if I grind my vagina on a chair or sitting on a hard pillow. I also did it a few times with my ex boyfriend while I was on top of him also through grinding but other than that, nothing. I had a few partners and I can distinguish which sex was bad and which one was great, also with whom I have great sexual chemistry. I am open to literally everything in the bedroom and I can talk open about it yet I am still uncomfortable saying I never had vaginal orgasm and I am uncomfortable to tell how I can achive one (which I suppose is clitorial one). I don’t feel good saying I can’t achive orgasm while touching myself because I am a little scared what he might think. Also I would be thinking he probably thinks it is taking me way too long if I am on top of him… For refrence I am 30 and the guy I am seeing is 40+. Thank you and please be kind. submitted by /u/Efficient_Swan30 [link] [comments]
Okay so this is not easy to write but I never had vaginal orgasm and I am looking for some help on what to do.
I am trying to explore my body with fingers but also nothing so I gave up on that. I will buy masturbator and try with that in a few weeks. The only time I orgasm is if I grind my vagina on a chair or sitting on a hard pillow. I also did it a few times with my ex boyfriend while I was on top of him also through grinding but other than that, nothing.
I had a few partners and I can distinguish which sex was bad and which one was great, also with whom I have great sexual chemistry. I am open to literally everything in the bedroom and I can talk open about it yet I am still uncomfortable saying I never had vaginal orgasm and I am uncomfortable to tell how I can achive one (which I suppose is clitorial one). I don’t feel good saying I can’t achive orgasm while touching myself because I am a little scared what he might think. Also I would be thinking he probably thinks it is taking me way too long if I am on top of him…
For refrence I am 30 and the guy I am seeing is 40+.
Thank you and please be kind.
submitted by /u/Efficient_Swan30
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