how do i get better at sex? /u/peachydaysonly Sex

my boyfriend told me last night that he still prefers to masturbate to porn over having sex with me because he does most of the work. how can i get better at sex and take the more dominant role?

i don’t know how to ride him properly and my handjob and blowjob skills are just subpar. i need all the advice that i can possibly get 😭

not sure if height, weight, and fat distribution play any role in this but i am 5’0 ft and around 150 lbs. my fat gets distributed mainly around my thighs so there is a lot of surface area for friction and it makes riding him harder for me, if that makes sense. i also cannot make sense of reverse cowgirl and it slips out so much. i also want to try anal but idk how to prep. it just feels like there is an endless amount of poop in my butt 😭

i just want to make him feel good i feel so bad about this all the time but i have been making efforts but not enough to make him actually feel good :/

my boyfriend told me last night that he still prefers to masturbate to porn over having sex with me because he does most of the work. how can i get better at sex and take the more dominant role?

i don’t know how to ride him properly and my handjob and blowjob skills are just subpar. i need all the advice that i can possibly get 😭

not sure if height, weight, and fat distribution play any role in this but i am 5’0 ft and around 150 lbs. my fat gets distributed mainly around my thighs so there is a lot of surface area for friction and it makes riding him harder for me, if that makes sense. i also cannot make sense of reverse cowgirl and it slips out so much. i also want to try anal but idk how to prep. it just feels like there is an endless amount of poop in my butt 😭

i just want to make him feel good i feel so bad about this all the time but i have been making efforts but not enough to make him actually feel good :/