Fit, attractive, successful 27F but having anxiety around having sex?? /u/PrettyPatience673 Sex

I am a 27-year-old female virgin. Most men find me attractive. I keep myself in good physical shape too. I have a successful career. I get along with men very well and all that. But for some unknown reason I have anxiety around dating and having sex so I just avoid it. I don’t know why— no history of trauma or anything like that. The only thing I can think of is I’m very alert about being in control of myself at all times— I don’t drink much out in public, I like to drive the car when I’m out with friends—etc. maybe that personality trait has poured over into my sex life and I’m nervous about relinquishing some control of my body to someone else? I can’t figure it out. Anyone experience this? Let me clarify I do not believe I’m asexual as I find men attractive.

I am a 27-year-old female virgin. Most men find me attractive. I keep myself in good physical shape too. I have a successful career. I get along with men very well and all that. But for some unknown reason I have anxiety around dating and having sex so I just avoid it. I don’t know why— no history of trauma or anything like that. The only thing I can think of is I’m very alert about being in control of myself at all times— I don’t drink much out in public, I like to drive the car when I’m out with friends—etc. maybe that personality trait has poured over into my sex life and I’m nervous about relinquishing some control of my body to someone else? I can’t figure it out. Anyone experience this? Let me clarify I do not believe I’m asexual as I find men attractive.