Dealing with Kinks formed out of inappropriate relations /u/sadsongbird234 Sex

F here. So I’m about to head off to college not too off. I was exposed to some inappropriate relations growing up. Nothing too serious to the level of rape or anything that involved pain but I guess it counts as grooming or abuse by definition.

I am definitely planning to get therapy and am moving out of state for college as well.

My question is…a lot of my sexual desires seem to stem from the way I was groomed. The way I dress, the way I like to be touched. For example, if it’s not too gross to share, I developed a breast fetish to the point where my boyfriends have commented on how “needy” i am with asking them to play with my boobs until i could orgasm from it.

Maybe I’ll learn more about this in therapy but that’ll be a while before i can find someone. Is it weird/unhealthy to continue to indulge in kinks that were formed under weird circumstances?

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​r/sex F here. So I’m about to head off to college not too off. I was exposed to some inappropriate relations growing up. Nothing too serious to the level of rape or anything that involved pain but I guess it counts as grooming or abuse by definition. I am definitely planning to get therapy and am moving out of state for college as well. My question is…a lot of my sexual desires seem to stem from the way I was groomed. The way I dress, the way I like to be touched. For example, if it’s not too gross to share, I developed a breast fetish to the point where my boyfriends have commented on how “needy” i am with asking them to play with my boobs until i could orgasm from it. Maybe I’ll learn more about this in therapy but that’ll be a while before i can find someone. Is it weird/unhealthy to continue to indulge in kinks that were formed under weird circumstances? submitted by /u/sadsongbird234 [link] [comments] 

F here. So I’m about to head off to college not too off. I was exposed to some inappropriate relations growing up. Nothing too serious to the level of rape or anything that involved pain but I guess it counts as grooming or abuse by definition.

I am definitely planning to get therapy and am moving out of state for college as well.

My question is…a lot of my sexual desires seem to stem from the way I was groomed. The way I dress, the way I like to be touched. For example, if it’s not too gross to share, I developed a breast fetish to the point where my boyfriends have commented on how “needy” i am with asking them to play with my boobs until i could orgasm from it.

Maybe I’ll learn more about this in therapy but that’ll be a while before i can find someone. Is it weird/unhealthy to continue to indulge in kinks that were formed under weird circumstances?

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