I’ve been having sex since I was 14 & I’ve had several long term partners, several flings and several one night stands. I say that bc I have definitely had partners try EVERYYYY and ANYYYY thing to get me off. Like made it their whole life mission. And I’ve also experienced just an array of things. And it’s just never happened during sex or when I’m around anyone.
I didn’t even have my first orgasm until I was 23 years old and that happened bc my boyfriend at the time bought a vibrator to try to make it happen during sex and it just didn’t. But I tried it once when he was gone and I had my first orgasm. (While watching porn – which fun fact, I’ve been watching porn since a VERY young age and I used to just would watch and get super aroused but not even touch myself. Until I was 23 with the vibrator and got my first O) don’t know if that could be part of the issue? So for the past few years I can orgasm but only with porn and a vibrator held on my clit.
I don’t think it’s a nerve thing bc I know I’m attractive & I also know most of men will fuck and get off to anything so I just don’t feel any pressure honestly. Anyone I’ve mentioned this to says I’m weird af and all my girl friends are able to cum w their partners and all my exs have had gfs that have came for them and it just makes me feel bad and like broken. I worry that I’ll get cheated on bc I can’t cum. I know if my man couldn’t cum during sex it would fuck with my head
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r/sex I’ve been having sex since I was 14 & I’ve had several long term partners, several flings and several one night stands. I say that bc I have definitely had partners try EVERYYYY and ANYYYY thing to get me off. Like made it their whole life mission. And I’ve also experienced just an array of things. And it’s just never happened during sex or when I’m around anyone. I didn’t even have my first orgasm until I was 23 years old and that happened bc my boyfriend at the time bought a vibrator to try to make it happen during sex and it just didn’t. But I tried it once when he was gone and I had my first orgasm. (While watching porn – which fun fact, I’ve been watching porn since a VERY young age and I used to just would watch and get super aroused but not even touch myself. Until I was 23 with the vibrator and got my first O) don’t know if that could be part of the issue? So for the past few years I can orgasm but only with porn and a vibrator held on my clit. I don’t think it’s a nerve thing bc I know I’m attractive & I also know most of men will fuck and get off to anything so I just don’t feel any pressure honestly. Anyone I’ve mentioned this to says I’m weird af and all my girl friends are able to cum w their partners and all my exs have had gfs that have came for them and it just makes me feel bad and like broken. I worry that I’ll get cheated on bc I can’t cum. I know if my man couldn’t cum during sex it would fuck with my head submitted by /u/EmergencyGood7727 [link] [comments]
I’ve been having sex since I was 14 & I’ve had several long term partners, several flings and several one night stands. I say that bc I have definitely had partners try EVERYYYY and ANYYYY thing to get me off. Like made it their whole life mission. And I’ve also experienced just an array of things. And it’s just never happened during sex or when I’m around anyone.
I didn’t even have my first orgasm until I was 23 years old and that happened bc my boyfriend at the time bought a vibrator to try to make it happen during sex and it just didn’t. But I tried it once when he was gone and I had my first orgasm. (While watching porn – which fun fact, I’ve been watching porn since a VERY young age and I used to just would watch and get super aroused but not even touch myself. Until I was 23 with the vibrator and got my first O) don’t know if that could be part of the issue? So for the past few years I can orgasm but only with porn and a vibrator held on my clit.
I don’t think it’s a nerve thing bc I know I’m attractive & I also know most of men will fuck and get off to anything so I just don’t feel any pressure honestly. Anyone I’ve mentioned this to says I’m weird af and all my girl friends are able to cum w their partners and all my exs have had gfs that have came for them and it just makes me feel bad and like broken. I worry that I’ll get cheated on bc I can’t cum. I know if my man couldn’t cum during sex it would fuck with my head
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