Wife’s sudden increase in libido /u/Fros33 Sex

First, let me say I consider myself a very lucky man. My wife (Jenny, 53) and I (55m) have been married 24 years and we’ve been through some things but our marriage is as strong as ever. Shes understanding, brilliant and extremely caring. She’s also still hot, still got it, still turns heads in a swimsuit or leather pants. She is the perfect match for me and I’m grateful.

One area that’s been frustrating from time to time has been intimacy. We’ve talked about it and worked on it but honestly I’ve wished it could be better. I believe I’ve been too pushy, I though, and decided to back off and focus on the positives (we do it weekly or so, she gives great oral, suggests things like porn or shower sex etc.).

On Christmas she had a surge of hornyness and I’m wondering what might explain it.

She told me in the morning that she was horny for me, and wanted to make some time at some point after the Xmas festivities. We agreed it had been a while because of our travel schedules and looked forward to making time. She said she had only cum once over the last 2 weeks – she masturbated while out of town.

In the evening I gave her a foot rub, and my hands wandered. She started playing with me with her foot, and I played with her with my hands. I got her under a blanket and slipped my hand into her pants and she was SOAKED. She told me she wanted me to make her cum hard, and lifted her top, and played with her boobs. Kind of out of character, especially with guests in the house! We went upstairs and I got her off and it was a very intense orgasm. We had sex, it was hot.

The next night as we were going to bed she asked me to get her off with her vibrator, which I did. Totally out of the blue, and rare – especially after the night before.

I am grateful for this, but I’m curious what could explain a wild increase in libido?

First, let me say I consider myself a very lucky man. My wife (Jenny, 53) and I (55m) have been married 24 years and we’ve been through some things but our marriage is as strong as ever. Shes understanding, brilliant and extremely caring. She’s also still hot, still got it, still turns heads in a swimsuit or leather pants. She is the perfect match for me and I’m grateful.

One area that’s been frustrating from time to time has been intimacy. We’ve talked about it and worked on it but honestly I’ve wished it could be better. I believe I’ve been too pushy, I though, and decided to back off and focus on the positives (we do it weekly or so, she gives great oral, suggests things like porn or shower sex etc.).

On Christmas she had a surge of hornyness and I’m wondering what might explain it.

She told me in the morning that she was horny for me, and wanted to make some time at some point after the Xmas festivities. We agreed it had been a while because of our travel schedules and looked forward to making time. She said she had only cum once over the last 2 weeks – she masturbated while out of town.

In the evening I gave her a foot rub, and my hands wandered. She started playing with me with her foot, and I played with her with my hands. I got her under a blanket and slipped my hand into her pants and she was SOAKED. She told me she wanted me to make her cum hard, and lifted her top, and played with her boobs. Kind of out of character, especially with guests in the house! We went upstairs and I got her off and it was a very intense orgasm. We had sex, it was hot.

The next night as we were going to bed she asked me to get her off with her vibrator, which I did. Totally out of the blue, and rare – especially after the night before.

I am grateful for this, but I’m curious what could explain a wild increase in libido?