There’s no such thing as loose vagina and I know it, but why does it feel so much different? /u/gabrleao_ Sex

I’m 20, male, and only had sex with two persons in my entire life. First one was my ex gf, who I lost my virginity with. I’m just average about size. I remember we lost our virginity, there was almost no pain, no blood and I didn’t struggle to get in, it didn’t feel like a first time like people describe. I remember feeling really little sensation, no pressure at all, just warmth. My erection wasn’t that good and I figured out that it was due the condom. After some time she started birth control and we started to have sex with no condom. I felt more than I felt using condoms, could get really hard but not a BIG improvement. Sex was good, but 4 years having sex with her I cant remember one single time I had an orgasm without using my or her hands to finish. She had no health problems, her anatomy was just normal, she didn’t have any symptoms of what people call “loose vagina”, so I figured out I could have gorilla grip syndrome, since I masturbated a lot. Things didn’t go well and this year we broke up. I met a girl, much older (26, my ex is 20 now), for who I felt in love and we started a relationship. I didn’t change any habits I had during the time I wasn’t having any sex after the break up. When we had sex for the first time it felt insanely different. She is a little bit “tighter” (hate this term) but not a really noticeable difference from what I remember. It felt absolutely different and I even struggled to not cum prematurely. Thought it was because of the excitement of having sex with other person for the first time, or because she was tighter due not having sex in a long time, but since then we have sex like every weekend and it still feels the same. We sometimes have sex like 6 or 7 times a day, and every orgasm feels like the best orgasm I’ve ever had. Besides the connection thing with the right person, I still try ti understand the physical reason for it to be so good. She gets really wet and comfortable with me, which should even make her feel looser and have lesse friction, but it always feels like she is hugging my thing. Can anyone explain this?

I’m 20, male, and only had sex with two persons in my entire life. First one was my ex gf, who I lost my virginity with. I’m just average about size. I remember we lost our virginity, there was almost no pain, no blood and I didn’t struggle to get in, it didn’t feel like a first time like people describe. I remember feeling really little sensation, no pressure at all, just warmth. My erection wasn’t that good and I figured out that it was due the condom. After some time she started birth control and we started to have sex with no condom. I felt more than I felt using condoms, could get really hard but not a BIG improvement. Sex was good, but 4 years having sex with her I cant remember one single time I had an orgasm without using my or her hands to finish. She had no health problems, her anatomy was just normal, she didn’t have any symptoms of what people call “loose vagina”, so I figured out I could have gorilla grip syndrome, since I masturbated a lot. Things didn’t go well and this year we broke up. I met a girl, much older (26, my ex is 20 now), for who I felt in love and we started a relationship. I didn’t change any habits I had during the time I wasn’t having any sex after the break up. When we had sex for the first time it felt insanely different. She is a little bit “tighter” (hate this term) but not a really noticeable difference from what I remember. It felt absolutely different and I even struggled to not cum prematurely. Thought it was because of the excitement of having sex with other person for the first time, or because she was tighter due not having sex in a long time, but since then we have sex like every weekend and it still feels the same. We sometimes have sex like 6 or 7 times a day, and every orgasm feels like the best orgasm I’ve ever had. Besides the connection thing with the right person, I still try ti understand the physical reason for it to be so good. She gets really wet and comfortable with me, which should even make her feel looser and have lesse friction, but it always feels like she is hugging my thing. Can anyone explain this?