I naturally do not moan or make noise, even when it feels good, during orgasm, or when I’m alone. However, I’ve heard that women do like when their man makes noise in bed. I would be like to do this to increase her enjoyment but doing so consequently takes me out of the moment and hinders my ability to perform. Its really hard to make a moaning noise without either laughing at yourself or becoming self conscious of the sound that came out of your mouth– neither of which are beneficial.
I have a similar issue with dirty talk which I’ve been trying to incorporate more into bed. The issue is that I’m actively thinking of what to say and when to say it, which doesn’t let me be in the moment. I’ve had times where I go soft because I was to focused on talking dirty, which is hilariously ironic because my dick is actively turning into a puddle while I’m trying to be dominant and tell her to take it.
Just curious if anyone else has a similar experience or if there are anyways to get better at it without making yourself cringe.
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r/sex I naturally do not moan or make noise, even when it feels good, during orgasm, or when I’m alone. However, I’ve heard that women do like when their man makes noise in bed. I would be like to do this to increase her enjoyment but doing so consequently takes me out of the moment and hinders my ability to perform. Its really hard to make a moaning noise without either laughing at yourself or becoming self conscious of the sound that came out of your mouth– neither of which are beneficial. I have a similar issue with dirty talk which I’ve been trying to incorporate more into bed. The issue is that I’m actively thinking of what to say and when to say it, which doesn’t let me be in the moment. I’ve had times where I go soft because I was to focused on talking dirty, which is hilariously ironic because my dick is actively turning into a puddle while I’m trying to be dominant and tell her to take it. Just curious if anyone else has a similar experience or if there are anyways to get better at it without making yourself cringe. submitted by /u/Relative_Singer9613 [link] [comments]
I naturally do not moan or make noise, even when it feels good, during orgasm, or when I’m alone. However, I’ve heard that women do like when their man makes noise in bed. I would be like to do this to increase her enjoyment but doing so consequently takes me out of the moment and hinders my ability to perform. Its really hard to make a moaning noise without either laughing at yourself or becoming self conscious of the sound that came out of your mouth– neither of which are beneficial.
I have a similar issue with dirty talk which I’ve been trying to incorporate more into bed. The issue is that I’m actively thinking of what to say and when to say it, which doesn’t let me be in the moment. I’ve had times where I go soft because I was to focused on talking dirty, which is hilariously ironic because my dick is actively turning into a puddle while I’m trying to be dominant and tell her to take it.
Just curious if anyone else has a similar experience or if there are anyways to get better at it without making yourself cringe.
submitted by /u/Relative_Singer9613
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