Me (20f) and my bf (19m) are both virgins and each others first times, we’ve been dating over a year and have gotten very comfortable with oral intimacy and a lot of hands on things like that, we both talk about sex frequently and he says he’s ready and so am I, but putting a condom on makes him soft, at the beginning of the relationship he has a lot of performance anxiety and would frequently get soft because of nervousness, and I’ve told him I won’t have sec without a condom as I’m not on any birth control (hormonal birth control messes me up BAD) and I don’t have access to any implants so condoms are the only choice, he agrees with the condoms but complains sometimes that they’re an inconvenience and kill the mood, and I somewhat agree, and every time we try put one on him he goes soft and gets nervous, any advice?
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r/sex Me (20f) and my bf (19m) are both virgins and each others first times, we’ve been dating over a year and have gotten very comfortable with oral intimacy and a lot of hands on things like that, we both talk about sex frequently and he says he’s ready and so am I, but putting a condom on makes him soft, at the beginning of the relationship he has a lot of performance anxiety and would frequently get soft because of nervousness, and I’ve told him I won’t have sec without a condom as I’m not on any birth control (hormonal birth control messes me up BAD) and I don’t have access to any implants so condoms are the only choice, he agrees with the condoms but complains sometimes that they’re an inconvenience and kill the mood, and I somewhat agree, and every time we try put one on him he goes soft and gets nervous, any advice? submitted by /u/Affectionate_Map2788 [link] [comments]
Me (20f) and my bf (19m) are both virgins and each others first times, we’ve been dating over a year and have gotten very comfortable with oral intimacy and a lot of hands on things like that, we both talk about sex frequently and he says he’s ready and so am I, but putting a condom on makes him soft, at the beginning of the relationship he has a lot of performance anxiety and would frequently get soft because of nervousness, and I’ve told him I won’t have sec without a condom as I’m not on any birth control (hormonal birth control messes me up BAD) and I don’t have access to any implants so condoms are the only choice, he agrees with the condoms but complains sometimes that they’re an inconvenience and kill the mood, and I somewhat agree, and every time we try put one on him he goes soft and gets nervous, any advice?
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