Oral U-spot apprehension? /u/Independent-Sun3786 Sex

The past few months when I’ve been going down on my wife, I starting exploring a little bit and softly started rubbing her urethral opening. Her reaction was a deep moan and slow grinding hips as I was licking her button and lighting rubbing her UO. She got off fairly quicker than normal.

I did that 2 or 3 times over a month, then 1 night we were drinking and being silly at a music hall and I whispered “so you like when I do that?” And she said not really, I wasn’t sure what you were doing. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I kind of laughed and said but you get off so much faster when I do that. She kinda switched subjects. I feel like she might be embarrassed that she likes that, but I’ve googled it before and it’s called the “U-spot” and is a legit erogenous zone.

So I left it alone for several weeks, then about 2 weeks ago and again last night I started licking her urethral opening lightly, kind of going back and forth between that and her clit. Both times she got off pretty intensely, I haven’t said anything about it again and I don’t think I will. I believe in the moment she really likes it, but when not aroused she doesn’t want to either admit it or like I said is embarrassed that she does.

I have zero issue with it, and zero issue doing that. We’ve been together 18 years and she has always been a little apprehensive with trying ”kinky” things, but will usually try things at least once.

Thoughts?

The past few months when I’ve been going down on my wife, I starting exploring a little bit and softly started rubbing her urethral opening. Her reaction was a deep moan and slow grinding hips as I was licking her button and lighting rubbing her UO. She got off fairly quicker than normal.

I did that 2 or 3 times over a month, then 1 night we were drinking and being silly at a music hall and I whispered “so you like when I do that?” And she said not really, I wasn’t sure what you were doing. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I kind of laughed and said but you get off so much faster when I do that. She kinda switched subjects. I feel like she might be embarrassed that she likes that, but I’ve googled it before and it’s called the “U-spot” and is a legit erogenous zone.

So I left it alone for several weeks, then about 2 weeks ago and again last night I started licking her urethral opening lightly, kind of going back and forth between that and her clit. Both times she got off pretty intensely, I haven’t said anything about it again and I don’t think I will. I believe in the moment she really likes it, but when not aroused she doesn’t want to either admit it or like I said is embarrassed that she does.

I have zero issue with it, and zero issue doing that. We’ve been together 18 years and she has always been a little apprehensive with trying ”kinky” things, but will usually try things at least once.

Thoughts?