33M I just started dating someone new 26F after a break up like 9 months ago. I spent most of the time alone and had one hookup like a month ago. In that hookup I nutted inside within 10 minutes from doggystyle. The problem is with this new girl.. I am so much more attracted to her and we have been on around 5 dates now over the last 3 weeks and had sex around the same amount of times. The first time I could not cum at all and chalked it up to just drinking too much and I’m on an anti depressant (not a good combo I know). The last few times I have been vigilant about trying to not drink more than 3 beers. I have stopped masterbating completely for the last 5 days in case I’m giving myself death grip somehow and ordered a Fleshlight for the future to prevent it.
The problem: She is very “particular” or inexperienced I can’t tell.. I’ve asked her directly about what she likes what positions and she is very shy and gives me non answers really. Neither of us can cum from intercourse. She ends up always giving me head until I explode into her throat (which is great don’t get me wrong) and I get her off with some fingering and hand play before hand. (She won’t let me reciprocate oral I’ve tried offering).
I am 6’1 ~200lbs fairly lean workout regularly she is 5’10 and weighs less than i do I’m not really sure her weight. But we are both tall. She has an extremely fat ass which I love but I can’t help but feel like I can never quite get into a position where we can both go at it and I can come inside her? Even doggystyle is off with her I am so confused about it and she gets frustrated that I don’t nut in her after banging for like 5 minutes from behind. I’ve noticed that I feel like I am “on my tip toes” and really pulling her towards me when I’m doing this even when I’m on my knees behind her it’s like logistics issue or something? She is really bad at “pacing” and moves erratically even in doggystyle. I’ve communicated that hey let’s chill a bit why don’t you let me try to control the pace and go a little slower but that still doesn’t do the trick…When she rides on top, my dick comes out all the time and it’s like she’s never done it. Missionary I feel like I’m not getting deep enough or something. I’ve always been told I’m bigger than average and tbh most of my dates say I’m too big and they have to get used to it for the first few times so I don’t think my cock is the issue but I’m starting to get in my head now.
I’ve never had this problem with any partner before and I really like having sex with this girl please help me. Anyone know good positions for tall couples or remedies to this?
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r/sex 33M I just started dating someone new 26F after a break up like 9 months ago. I spent most of the time alone and had one hookup like a month ago. In that hookup I nutted inside within 10 minutes from doggystyle. The problem is with this new girl.. I am so much more attracted to her and we have been on around 5 dates now over the last 3 weeks and had sex around the same amount of times. The first time I could not cum at all and chalked it up to just drinking too much and I’m on an anti depressant (not a good combo I know). The last few times I have been vigilant about trying to not drink more than 3 beers. I have stopped masterbating completely for the last 5 days in case I’m giving myself death grip somehow and ordered a Fleshlight for the future to prevent it. The problem: She is very “particular” or inexperienced I can’t tell.. I’ve asked her directly about what she likes what positions and she is very shy and gives me non answers really. Neither of us can cum from intercourse. She ends up always giving me head until I explode into her throat (which is great don’t get me wrong) and I get her off with some fingering and hand play before hand. (She won’t let me reciprocate oral I’ve tried offering). I am 6’1 ~200lbs fairly lean workout regularly she is 5’10 and weighs less than i do I’m not really sure her weight. But we are both tall. She has an extremely fat ass which I love but I can’t help but feel like I can never quite get into a position where we can both go at it and I can come inside her? Even doggystyle is off with her I am so confused about it and she gets frustrated that I don’t nut in her after banging for like 5 minutes from behind. I’ve noticed that I feel like I am “on my tip toes” and really pulling her towards me when I’m doing this even when I’m on my knees behind her it’s like logistics issue or something? She is really bad at “pacing” and moves erratically even in doggystyle. I’ve communicated that hey let’s chill a bit why don’t you let me try to control the pace and go a little slower but that still doesn’t do the trick…When she rides on top, my dick comes out all the time and it’s like she’s never done it. Missionary I feel like I’m not getting deep enough or something. I’ve always been told I’m bigger than average and tbh most of my dates say I’m too big and they have to get used to it for the first few times so I don’t think my cock is the issue but I’m starting to get in my head now. I’ve never had this problem with any partner before and I really like having sex with this girl please help me. Anyone know good positions for tall couples or remedies to this? submitted by /u/lelcatz1337 [link] [comments]
33M I just started dating someone new 26F after a break up like 9 months ago. I spent most of the time alone and had one hookup like a month ago. In that hookup I nutted inside within 10 minutes from doggystyle. The problem is with this new girl.. I am so much more attracted to her and we have been on around 5 dates now over the last 3 weeks and had sex around the same amount of times. The first time I could not cum at all and chalked it up to just drinking too much and I’m on an anti depressant (not a good combo I know). The last few times I have been vigilant about trying to not drink more than 3 beers. I have stopped masterbating completely for the last 5 days in case I’m giving myself death grip somehow and ordered a Fleshlight for the future to prevent it.
The problem: She is very “particular” or inexperienced I can’t tell.. I’ve asked her directly about what she likes what positions and she is very shy and gives me non answers really. Neither of us can cum from intercourse. She ends up always giving me head until I explode into her throat (which is great don’t get me wrong) and I get her off with some fingering and hand play before hand. (She won’t let me reciprocate oral I’ve tried offering).
I am 6’1 ~200lbs fairly lean workout regularly she is 5’10 and weighs less than i do I’m not really sure her weight. But we are both tall. She has an extremely fat ass which I love but I can’t help but feel like I can never quite get into a position where we can both go at it and I can come inside her? Even doggystyle is off with her I am so confused about it and she gets frustrated that I don’t nut in her after banging for like 5 minutes from behind. I’ve noticed that I feel like I am “on my tip toes” and really pulling her towards me when I’m doing this even when I’m on my knees behind her it’s like logistics issue or something? She is really bad at “pacing” and moves erratically even in doggystyle. I’ve communicated that hey let’s chill a bit why don’t you let me try to control the pace and go a little slower but that still doesn’t do the trick…When she rides on top, my dick comes out all the time and it’s like she’s never done it. Missionary I feel like I’m not getting deep enough or something. I’ve always been told I’m bigger than average and tbh most of my dates say I’m too big and they have to get used to it for the first few times so I don’t think my cock is the issue but I’m starting to get in my head now.
I’ve never had this problem with any partner before and I really like having sex with this girl please help me. Anyone know good positions for tall couples or remedies to this?
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