(20s afab virigin)
First I appreciate everyone’s answers to my previous question and sorry for the weird wording of this one I couldn’t figure out a non-crass way to put it.
I’ve realized I’m just very sexually frustrated because I haven’t explored enough. I’ve been hesitant to use penetrative sex toys because I’m kind of scared of breaking my hymen and it also just seems kinda sad to do that to myself and not have someone special do it, ya know? I’m considering investing in some toys and I guess I just wanted y’all’s opinion on if it’s probably already broken? I’ve never used a tampon – I just use pads – but I have inserted my fingers all the way inside me several times. From what I’ve read that should have been enough to break it but I’ve also seen it described as painful and I have no memory of feeling something painful like that, while masturbating or while doing anything else that could have broken it. Feel free to correct me if my entire concept of what is going on is wrong too.
please don’t judge me for the stupid question lol i’m just trying to figure all this out. I know I’m not coming from the same place as most people due to sexual trauma and my religious upbringing – it’s been a rough couple years trying to work through all that
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r/sex (20s afab virigin) First I appreciate everyone’s answers to my previous question and sorry for the weird wording of this one I couldn’t figure out a non-crass way to put it. I’ve realized I’m just very sexually frustrated because I haven’t explored enough. I’ve been hesitant to use penetrative sex toys because I’m kind of scared of breaking my hymen and it also just seems kinda sad to do that to myself and not have someone special do it, ya know? I’m considering investing in some toys and I guess I just wanted y’all’s opinion on if it’s probably already broken? I’ve never used a tampon – I just use pads – but I have inserted my fingers all the way inside me several times. From what I’ve read that should have been enough to break it but I’ve also seen it described as painful and I have no memory of feeling something painful like that, while masturbating or while doing anything else that could have broken it. Feel free to correct me if my entire concept of what is going on is wrong too. please don’t judge me for the stupid question lol i’m just trying to figure all this out. I know I’m not coming from the same place as most people due to sexual trauma and my religious upbringing – it’s been a rough couple years trying to work through all that submitted by /u/Revolutionary-Put157 [link] [comments]
(20s afab virigin)
First I appreciate everyone’s answers to my previous question and sorry for the weird wording of this one I couldn’t figure out a non-crass way to put it.
I’ve realized I’m just very sexually frustrated because I haven’t explored enough. I’ve been hesitant to use penetrative sex toys because I’m kind of scared of breaking my hymen and it also just seems kinda sad to do that to myself and not have someone special do it, ya know? I’m considering investing in some toys and I guess I just wanted y’all’s opinion on if it’s probably already broken? I’ve never used a tampon – I just use pads – but I have inserted my fingers all the way inside me several times. From what I’ve read that should have been enough to break it but I’ve also seen it described as painful and I have no memory of feeling something painful like that, while masturbating or while doing anything else that could have broken it. Feel free to correct me if my entire concept of what is going on is wrong too.
please don’t judge me for the stupid question lol i’m just trying to figure all this out. I know I’m not coming from the same place as most people due to sexual trauma and my religious upbringing – it’s been a rough couple years trying to work through all that
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