I (female) am with an amazing woman who I really really love (for the past one and a half years), and we’re both people who’s love languages are physical touch, so that means lots of intimacy. The other day she asked me to go down on her and so I did, and I absolutely hate to say this but it kind of disgusts me. I don’t know why. It’s not like her vagina is disgusting, I love her body, but the actual act disgusts me. I enjoy receiving it but I hate giving it and that makes me so heartbroken because I know it’s what she wants and I want her to feel loved and valued. There aren’t many things I’m comfortable with doing either becauze I have a lot of trauma surrounding sex and I’ve been slowly getting more comfortable but there are many things that she wants that I don’t feel ready to give her and I just want her to be happy and feel loved and valued. What do I do?
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r/sex I (female) am with an amazing woman who I really really love (for the past one and a half years), and we’re both people who’s love languages are physical touch, so that means lots of intimacy. The other day she asked me to go down on her and so I did, and I absolutely hate to say this but it kind of disgusts me. I don’t know why. It’s not like her vagina is disgusting, I love her body, but the actual act disgusts me. I enjoy receiving it but I hate giving it and that makes me so heartbroken because I know it’s what she wants and I want her to feel loved and valued. There aren’t many things I’m comfortable with doing either becauze I have a lot of trauma surrounding sex and I’ve been slowly getting more comfortable but there are many things that she wants that I don’t feel ready to give her and I just want her to be happy and feel loved and valued. What do I do? submitted by /u/Nice-Total-4896 [link] [comments]
I (female) am with an amazing woman who I really really love (for the past one and a half years), and we’re both people who’s love languages are physical touch, so that means lots of intimacy. The other day she asked me to go down on her and so I did, and I absolutely hate to say this but it kind of disgusts me. I don’t know why. It’s not like her vagina is disgusting, I love her body, but the actual act disgusts me. I enjoy receiving it but I hate giving it and that makes me so heartbroken because I know it’s what she wants and I want her to feel loved and valued. There aren’t many things I’m comfortable with doing either becauze I have a lot of trauma surrounding sex and I’ve been slowly getting more comfortable but there are many things that she wants that I don’t feel ready to give her and I just want her to be happy and feel loved and valued. What do I do?
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