In a 3 year relationship where my finance won’t initiate sex, and when he rarely does he just tries to touch my boob or directly down there which does nothing for me sexually. I’ve made it very clear on multiple occasions that I get turned on my shoulder/neck/behind the ear kisses the most and my rubbing my inner thighs. He just won’t put in the effort to do any of them… and when I bring it up he uses his “lack of experience ” as an excuse despite us having sex for 3 years (and I’ve only had one previous partner). I find myself fantasizing about other men because I prefer being dominated in bed rather than trying to coax him into sex, it makes me feel masculine and it turns me off. Is there any way to save this relationship/sex life?
Note: on top of this I have caught him lying about watching porn and finding videos of other women from websites on his phone. Which makes me more confused because why turn to that when you have a finance who is more attractive than you and in great shape?
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r/sex In a 3 year relationship where my finance won’t initiate sex, and when he rarely does he just tries to touch my boob or directly down there which does nothing for me sexually. I’ve made it very clear on multiple occasions that I get turned on my shoulder/neck/behind the ear kisses the most and my rubbing my inner thighs. He just won’t put in the effort to do any of them… and when I bring it up he uses his “lack of experience ” as an excuse despite us having sex for 3 years (and I’ve only had one previous partner). I find myself fantasizing about other men because I prefer being dominated in bed rather than trying to coax him into sex, it makes me feel masculine and it turns me off. Is there any way to save this relationship/sex life? Note: on top of this I have caught him lying about watching porn and finding videos of other women from websites on his phone. Which makes me more confused because why turn to that when you have a finance who is more attractive than you and in great shape? submitted by /u/Dapper-Reference-903 [link] [comments]
In a 3 year relationship where my finance won’t initiate sex, and when he rarely does he just tries to touch my boob or directly down there which does nothing for me sexually. I’ve made it very clear on multiple occasions that I get turned on my shoulder/neck/behind the ear kisses the most and my rubbing my inner thighs. He just won’t put in the effort to do any of them… and when I bring it up he uses his “lack of experience ” as an excuse despite us having sex for 3 years (and I’ve only had one previous partner). I find myself fantasizing about other men because I prefer being dominated in bed rather than trying to coax him into sex, it makes me feel masculine and it turns me off. Is there any way to save this relationship/sex life?
Note: on top of this I have caught him lying about watching porn and finding videos of other women from websites on his phone. Which makes me more confused because why turn to that when you have a finance who is more attractive than you and in great shape?
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