I (19f) and my bf (20m) have been together for about 6 months. Considering this months ago the along the topic of sex the comment about oral happened. I already previously know he has a low libido, which with me being more hyper about it I actually have been doing well for the most part. Back to the comment, he had told me he doesn’t do oral on woman (He has tried it numerous times, texture and everything bothers him). I was completely okay with this until it’s been months of no sex due to libido and no energy on his part. But, since time has strolled along there’s days i just wake up upset and depressed which usually happens when I end up thinking about it and it’s got to the point I realized how much I miss receiving orally. The attention, motivation, being passionate about it.
I would never cheat or leave him I genuinely do love him, and i’ll continue to wait til he’s ready for anything until he’s comfortable. It has had me thinking about sex i’ve had in the past though (like how much and often) I used to indulge in. I’ve been craving receiving orally specifically and now i’m kind of at a loss of words and thoughts about it. Toys haven’t helped much with that and in all honesty I ended up throwing out about 3/4ths of my toys due to the gloomy mood I was getting when trying to enjoy myself.
How do I help myself get through this? I keep overthinking about it and although he’s told me it’s nothing with me and he just doesn’t like it (we’ve never tried it together) i still somehow feel like it’s just me-
TLTR; BF made a comment about how he doesn’t do oral. At first was perfectly fine with it but now I want it. I’m having Anxiety and overthinking about it too. How do I get over these feelings?
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r/sex I (19f) and my bf (20m) have been together for about 6 months. Considering this months ago the along the topic of sex the comment about oral happened. I already previously know he has a low libido, which with me being more hyper about it I actually have been doing well for the most part. Back to the comment, he had told me he doesn’t do oral on woman (He has tried it numerous times, texture and everything bothers him). I was completely okay with this until it’s been months of no sex due to libido and no energy on his part. But, since time has strolled along there’s days i just wake up upset and depressed which usually happens when I end up thinking about it and it’s got to the point I realized how much I miss receiving orally. The attention, motivation, being passionate about it. I would never cheat or leave him I genuinely do love him, and i’ll continue to wait til he’s ready for anything until he’s comfortable. It has had me thinking about sex i’ve had in the past though (like how much and often) I used to indulge in. I’ve been craving receiving orally specifically and now i’m kind of at a loss of words and thoughts about it. Toys haven’t helped much with that and in all honesty I ended up throwing out about 3/4ths of my toys due to the gloomy mood I was getting when trying to enjoy myself. How do I help myself get through this? I keep overthinking about it and although he’s told me it’s nothing with me and he just doesn’t like it (we’ve never tried it together) i still somehow feel like it’s just me- TLTR; BF made a comment about how he doesn’t do oral. At first was perfectly fine with it but now I want it. I’m having Anxiety and overthinking about it too. How do I get over these feelings? submitted by /u/CantaloupeSerious651 [link] [comments]
I (19f) and my bf (20m) have been together for about 6 months. Considering this months ago the along the topic of sex the comment about oral happened. I already previously know he has a low libido, which with me being more hyper about it I actually have been doing well for the most part. Back to the comment, he had told me he doesn’t do oral on woman (He has tried it numerous times, texture and everything bothers him). I was completely okay with this until it’s been months of no sex due to libido and no energy on his part. But, since time has strolled along there’s days i just wake up upset and depressed which usually happens when I end up thinking about it and it’s got to the point I realized how much I miss receiving orally. The attention, motivation, being passionate about it.
I would never cheat or leave him I genuinely do love him, and i’ll continue to wait til he’s ready for anything until he’s comfortable. It has had me thinking about sex i’ve had in the past though (like how much and often) I used to indulge in. I’ve been craving receiving orally specifically and now i’m kind of at a loss of words and thoughts about it. Toys haven’t helped much with that and in all honesty I ended up throwing out about 3/4ths of my toys due to the gloomy mood I was getting when trying to enjoy myself.
How do I help myself get through this? I keep overthinking about it and although he’s told me it’s nothing with me and he just doesn’t like it (we’ve never tried it together) i still somehow feel like it’s just me-
TLTR; BF made a comment about how he doesn’t do oral. At first was perfectly fine with it but now I want it. I’m having Anxiety and overthinking about it too. How do I get over these feelings?
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