So, I’m not a virgin let me say that. I’m 36 never been married. I’ve had my share of boyfriends and encounters. I had a health scare this year and that envolved a blood clot. Because of it I can no longer take hormonal birth control. After being on it over 10 years. I recently started dating someone and the topic of sex came up. I don’t have children nor do I want any. I voiced to him my concerns and how he’ll have to use a condom. The idea of sex and possibly getting pregnant terrifies me. He says it doesn’t feel the same with a condom. He says he wants to feel me once and then put one on. I don’t want to. I have anxiety and I told him no. It’s condom or nothing. He agreed to it. Should I be afraid of having sex? Am I wrong to make the request? Am I just crazy and should I just get over it? I need some advice. Sincerely horny and scared lol.
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r/sex So, I’m not a virgin let me say that. I’m 36 never been married. I’ve had my share of boyfriends and encounters. I had a health scare this year and that envolved a blood clot. Because of it I can no longer take hormonal birth control. After being on it over 10 years. I recently started dating someone and the topic of sex came up. I don’t have children nor do I want any. I voiced to him my concerns and how he’ll have to use a condom. The idea of sex and possibly getting pregnant terrifies me. He says it doesn’t feel the same with a condom. He says he wants to feel me once and then put one on. I don’t want to. I have anxiety and I told him no. It’s condom or nothing. He agreed to it. Should I be afraid of having sex? Am I wrong to make the request? Am I just crazy and should I just get over it? I need some advice. Sincerely horny and scared lol. submitted by /u/PomegranateNo3896 [link] [comments]
So, I’m not a virgin let me say that. I’m 36 never been married. I’ve had my share of boyfriends and encounters. I had a health scare this year and that envolved a blood clot. Because of it I can no longer take hormonal birth control. After being on it over 10 years. I recently started dating someone and the topic of sex came up. I don’t have children nor do I want any. I voiced to him my concerns and how he’ll have to use a condom. The idea of sex and possibly getting pregnant terrifies me. He says it doesn’t feel the same with a condom. He says he wants to feel me once and then put one on. I don’t want to. I have anxiety and I told him no. It’s condom or nothing. He agreed to it. Should I be afraid of having sex? Am I wrong to make the request? Am I just crazy and should I just get over it? I need some advice. Sincerely horny and scared lol.
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