Mid 30s couple looking to liven up the bedroom a little bit. One of the things that is holding us back a bit is that we are both relatively inexperienced when it comes to sex, only ever being with each other and being fairly vanilla. Since we’ve only been with each other it’s almost as if anything that isn’t part of our normal bedroom procedure is something that is only done in porn and that people don’t actually do those things (ex – wife can’t believe that I enjoy giving oral which i love doing, she anal doesn’t actually exist, she doesn’t think women masturbate, etc.)
My wife is pretty shy when it even comes to talking about sex, so what are some way we can start normalizing talking about sex with each other. Honestly this subreddit has been pretty eye opening to me (not sure if she would be ready for this yet). Any books or podcasts you’ve come across that we could read/listen to together that might help help us be more proactive in the bedroom?
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r/sex Mid 30s couple looking to liven up the bedroom a little bit. One of the things that is holding us back a bit is that we are both relatively inexperienced when it comes to sex, only ever being with each other and being fairly vanilla. Since we’ve only been with each other it’s almost as if anything that isn’t part of our normal bedroom procedure is something that is only done in porn and that people don’t actually do those things (ex – wife can’t believe that I enjoy giving oral which i love doing, she anal doesn’t actually exist, she doesn’t think women masturbate, etc.) My wife is pretty shy when it even comes to talking about sex, so what are some way we can start normalizing talking about sex with each other. Honestly this subreddit has been pretty eye opening to me (not sure if she would be ready for this yet). Any books or podcasts you’ve come across that we could read/listen to together that might help help us be more proactive in the bedroom? submitted by /u/orange-sr [link] [comments]
Mid 30s couple looking to liven up the bedroom a little bit. One of the things that is holding us back a bit is that we are both relatively inexperienced when it comes to sex, only ever being with each other and being fairly vanilla. Since we’ve only been with each other it’s almost as if anything that isn’t part of our normal bedroom procedure is something that is only done in porn and that people don’t actually do those things (ex – wife can’t believe that I enjoy giving oral which i love doing, she anal doesn’t actually exist, she doesn’t think women masturbate, etc.)
My wife is pretty shy when it even comes to talking about sex, so what are some way we can start normalizing talking about sex with each other. Honestly this subreddit has been pretty eye opening to me (not sure if she would be ready for this yet). Any books or podcasts you’ve come across that we could read/listen to together that might help help us be more proactive in the bedroom?
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