I (26F) and boyfriend (32M) have been dating for 4 years almost.
TLDR: Sex life dying due to life’s stresses, how do you put it aside?
We’ve always had a great relationship and had a strong goal to huddle and buy a house together. This involved moving in with my mum which essentially killed our sex life.
We recently brought a house the start of this year (11M ago) and we thought we would regain our spark with privacy, but the constant churn and grind of life (working, keeping up with social lives, looking after the house/chores) and the financial stress of being accountable for a mortgage leaves me unable to mentally switch off and enjoy/initiate sex. I’m exhausted and so is he but the lack of sex is really affecting him. When I finally can, even if I want it and am enjoying it, my body is dry as a bone and makes me feel awful.
How do you turn life off and not let it affect your sex life? Struggling to regain my libido. HELP
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r/sex I (26F) and boyfriend (32M) have been dating for 4 years almost. TLDR: Sex life dying due to life’s stresses, how do you put it aside? We’ve always had a great relationship and had a strong goal to huddle and buy a house together. This involved moving in with my mum which essentially killed our sex life. We recently brought a house the start of this year (11M ago) and we thought we would regain our spark with privacy, but the constant churn and grind of life (working, keeping up with social lives, looking after the house/chores) and the financial stress of being accountable for a mortgage leaves me unable to mentally switch off and enjoy/initiate sex. I’m exhausted and so is he but the lack of sex is really affecting him. When I finally can, even if I want it and am enjoying it, my body is dry as a bone and makes me feel awful. How do you turn life off and not let it affect your sex life? Struggling to regain my libido. HELP submitted by /u/Cuddlypath6588 [link] [comments]
I (26F) and boyfriend (32M) have been dating for 4 years almost.
TLDR: Sex life dying due to life’s stresses, how do you put it aside?
We’ve always had a great relationship and had a strong goal to huddle and buy a house together. This involved moving in with my mum which essentially killed our sex life.
We recently brought a house the start of this year (11M ago) and we thought we would regain our spark with privacy, but the constant churn and grind of life (working, keeping up with social lives, looking after the house/chores) and the financial stress of being accountable for a mortgage leaves me unable to mentally switch off and enjoy/initiate sex. I’m exhausted and so is he but the lack of sex is really affecting him. When I finally can, even if I want it and am enjoying it, my body is dry as a bone and makes me feel awful.
How do you turn life off and not let it affect your sex life? Struggling to regain my libido. HELP
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