Isn’t sex supposed to be enjoyable after first time? /u/Big_Shirt2562 Sex

So I (F18) recently just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend(M19). we’ve done it before 3 times so far and I don’t enjoy it. The first time was obviously painful but after it just felt weird, it didn’t feel good like many people say it supposed to feel. When I say “weird”I mean I get in my head and not focus during the deed maybe bc of anxiety idk but I don’t seem to enjoy it. My bf does the all foreplay and I get turned on but as soon as he put it in, it all goes away. So my question is how long does it take for sex to start feeling good after the first time? Or something wrong with me? I mean I genuinely like him so it kinda doesn’t make sense. Or maybe I’m just getting in my head too much? Help?

So I (F18) recently just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend(M19). we’ve done it before 3 times so far and I don’t enjoy it. The first time was obviously painful but after it just felt weird, it didn’t feel good like many people say it supposed to feel. When I say “weird”I mean I get in my head and not focus during the deed maybe bc of anxiety idk but I don’t seem to enjoy it. My bf does the all foreplay and I get turned on but as soon as he put it in, it all goes away. So my question is how long does it take for sex to start feeling good after the first time? Or something wrong with me? I mean I genuinely like him so it kinda doesn’t make sense. Or maybe I’m just getting in my head too much? Help?