38m (UK) going through a divorce after almost 10 years of being together, been in a sexless marriage, which led me to a porn addiction which subsequently caused me to have symptoms of Death grip syndrome. This then compounded issues in the bedroom on those rare moments of intimacy, which further led to marital issues.
Anyhow, on the positive side, Ive been completely hands off for couple of weeks (ie not beating the meat) to let things recover physically and mentally.
I will most likely give myself some time to rebuild physically and mentally before getting back onto the dating scene.
I need to have confidence that everything downstairs is back in full working order before entering a committed relationship to avoid a repeat of same issues (had issues with ED and not being able to ejaculate from intercourse.)
Is hiring an escort a good idea to test everything is working so to speak or would this be immoral? Dont want this to become an addiction either and end up broke lol.
Ive never really had hooks up before, not really sure how to go about that as I expect most women would want a committed relationship.
Has anyone been in a similar position and how did you navigate your way through? Any advice appreciated, thanks.
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r/sex 38m (UK) going through a divorce after almost 10 years of being together, been in a sexless marriage, which led me to a porn addiction which subsequently caused me to have symptoms of Death grip syndrome. This then compounded issues in the bedroom on those rare moments of intimacy, which further led to marital issues. Anyhow, on the positive side, Ive been completely hands off for couple of weeks (ie not beating the meat) to let things recover physically and mentally. I will most likely give myself some time to rebuild physically and mentally before getting back onto the dating scene. I need to have confidence that everything downstairs is back in full working order before entering a committed relationship to avoid a repeat of same issues (had issues with ED and not being able to ejaculate from intercourse.) Is hiring an escort a good idea to test everything is working so to speak or would this be immoral? Dont want this to become an addiction either and end up broke lol. Ive never really had hooks up before, not really sure how to go about that as I expect most women would want a committed relationship. Has anyone been in a similar position and how did you navigate your way through? Any advice appreciated, thanks. submitted by /u/Thread-Hunter [link] [comments]
38m (UK) going through a divorce after almost 10 years of being together, been in a sexless marriage, which led me to a porn addiction which subsequently caused me to have symptoms of Death grip syndrome. This then compounded issues in the bedroom on those rare moments of intimacy, which further led to marital issues.
Anyhow, on the positive side, Ive been completely hands off for couple of weeks (ie not beating the meat) to let things recover physically and mentally.
I will most likely give myself some time to rebuild physically and mentally before getting back onto the dating scene.
I need to have confidence that everything downstairs is back in full working order before entering a committed relationship to avoid a repeat of same issues (had issues with ED and not being able to ejaculate from intercourse.)
Is hiring an escort a good idea to test everything is working so to speak or would this be immoral? Dont want this to become an addiction either and end up broke lol.
Ive never really had hooks up before, not really sure how to go about that as I expect most women would want a committed relationship.
Has anyone been in a similar position and how did you navigate your way through? Any advice appreciated, thanks.
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