I’m (28f) 20 weeks post partum, my husband (28m) and I haven’t had sex in a 6 months. He doesnt seem to show any interest, but some times he would feel me up in his sleep…. We communicate well enough mentally, but he seems checked out sexually. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he has been evasive. Since giving birth i have problems getting wet, and i have been nervous to have sex. Although we have never gone far enough sexually post partum for me to discuss these things. It’s 3am where i am and i have been crying, I don’t know what i did…. I woke up and my husband has his hand in my underwear, since i have trouble getting wet post partum and he has long nails it became painful. I try to push him away and to go slower, but he wont. I tried to stimulate him to distract him but he wouldn’t let me. He got a bit rough until he just got frustrated and left me all together in bed. I am scared at this point, but i am confused on what to do since I don’t want to discourage him since this is the first time he’s shown interest in sex in a while…. I tried talking to him about it afterwards but he wouldn’t talk to me, and i tried to coax him back into bed to do it properly with lube properly but he wouldn’t even look at me. What should i do reddit?
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r/sex I’m (28f) 20 weeks post partum, my husband (28m) and I haven’t had sex in a 6 months. He doesnt seem to show any interest, but some times he would feel me up in his sleep…. We communicate well enough mentally, but he seems checked out sexually. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he has been evasive. Since giving birth i have problems getting wet, and i have been nervous to have sex. Although we have never gone far enough sexually post partum for me to discuss these things. It’s 3am where i am and i have been crying, I don’t know what i did…. I woke up and my husband has his hand in my underwear, since i have trouble getting wet post partum and he has long nails it became painful. I try to push him away and to go slower, but he wont. I tried to stimulate him to distract him but he wouldn’t let me. He got a bit rough until he just got frustrated and left me all together in bed. I am scared at this point, but i am confused on what to do since I don’t want to discourage him since this is the first time he’s shown interest in sex in a while…. I tried talking to him about it afterwards but he wouldn’t talk to me, and i tried to coax him back into bed to do it properly with lube properly but he wouldn’t even look at me. What should i do reddit? submitted by /u/throwawaaayyacct [link] [comments]
I’m (28f) 20 weeks post partum, my husband (28m) and I haven’t had sex in a 6 months. He doesnt seem to show any interest, but some times he would feel me up in his sleep…. We communicate well enough mentally, but he seems checked out sexually. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he has been evasive. Since giving birth i have problems getting wet, and i have been nervous to have sex. Although we have never gone far enough sexually post partum for me to discuss these things. It’s 3am where i am and i have been crying, I don’t know what i did…. I woke up and my husband has his hand in my underwear, since i have trouble getting wet post partum and he has long nails it became painful. I try to push him away and to go slower, but he wont. I tried to stimulate him to distract him but he wouldn’t let me. He got a bit rough until he just got frustrated and left me all together in bed. I am scared at this point, but i am confused on what to do since I don’t want to discourage him since this is the first time he’s shown interest in sex in a while…. I tried talking to him about it afterwards but he wouldn’t talk to me, and i tried to coax him back into bed to do it properly with lube properly but he wouldn’t even look at me. What should i do reddit?
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