i (21f) just started dating this awesome guy (21m) after being fwb for a few months. when we first met, the sex was awesome. i’m not on birth control, but he was pulling out and i didn’t really care. however, ive made us stop doing that because neither of us need to be having a kid right now. since we’ve started using condoms, i can’t make him finish. oral doesn’t get him there, he can’t finish himself off, and neither can i. i’m at a total loss. i struggle with severe anxiety and don’t want to be going on birth control out of fear it will make it worse. i also already have pretty heavy cycles so i don’t think im a good contender for an IUD. i feel like ive tried everything, more lube, different positions, longer foreplay etc and nothing is working. i feel so terrible i dissapoint him every time i sleep with him and it’s really taking a toll on the very new relationship. what should i do? he’s so great i don’t want to lose him but im scared we’re just not sexually compatible.
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r/sex i (21f) just started dating this awesome guy (21m) after being fwb for a few months. when we first met, the sex was awesome. i’m not on birth control, but he was pulling out and i didn’t really care. however, ive made us stop doing that because neither of us need to be having a kid right now. since we’ve started using condoms, i can’t make him finish. oral doesn’t get him there, he can’t finish himself off, and neither can i. i’m at a total loss. i struggle with severe anxiety and don’t want to be going on birth control out of fear it will make it worse. i also already have pretty heavy cycles so i don’t think im a good contender for an IUD. i feel like ive tried everything, more lube, different positions, longer foreplay etc and nothing is working. i feel so terrible i dissapoint him every time i sleep with him and it’s really taking a toll on the very new relationship. what should i do? he’s so great i don’t want to lose him but im scared we’re just not sexually compatible. submitted by /u/milkyypiggyy [link] [comments]
i (21f) just started dating this awesome guy (21m) after being fwb for a few months. when we first met, the sex was awesome. i’m not on birth control, but he was pulling out and i didn’t really care. however, ive made us stop doing that because neither of us need to be having a kid right now. since we’ve started using condoms, i can’t make him finish. oral doesn’t get him there, he can’t finish himself off, and neither can i. i’m at a total loss. i struggle with severe anxiety and don’t want to be going on birth control out of fear it will make it worse. i also already have pretty heavy cycles so i don’t think im a good contender for an IUD. i feel like ive tried everything, more lube, different positions, longer foreplay etc and nothing is working. i feel so terrible i dissapoint him every time i sleep with him and it’s really taking a toll on the very new relationship. what should i do? he’s so great i don’t want to lose him but im scared we’re just not sexually compatible.
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