Me (F34) Him (M33). Our sex life was pretty much non existing for the first year due to him having no sex drive which we found out was due to a prolactinoma. He was put on medication to shrink the tumour and it was like a switch and he’s horny all the time to which I’ll help make him orgasm once or twice a day. We’ve explored nearly every kink in the femdom area as that’s his main preference, especially pegging etc… He’s recently came out and accepted he’s bisexual and hot talk involves a lot of men involved etc…(not sure if it’s relevant) but he’ll be hard during sucking on my strapon dildo etc… He can stay hard through every play time we have with him except when it comes to actually having sex with me. I’ll spend hours playing with him but I’ll be lucky if I get 15 minutes attention and most of the time it’s just a goal to make me orgasm and just with fingers or toys. I don’t know if I’m overthining the whole thing or not as he tells me he just has anxiety still from not being able to stay hard during his no sex drive days. But in my head, he’s fine with everything else, just not the actual penetrative sex.
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r/sex Me (F34) Him (M33). Our sex life was pretty much non existing for the first year due to him having no sex drive which we found out was due to a prolactinoma. He was put on medication to shrink the tumour and it was like a switch and he’s horny all the time to which I’ll help make him orgasm once or twice a day. We’ve explored nearly every kink in the femdom area as that’s his main preference, especially pegging etc… He’s recently came out and accepted he’s bisexual and hot talk involves a lot of men involved etc…(not sure if it’s relevant) but he’ll be hard during sucking on my strapon dildo etc… He can stay hard through every play time we have with him except when it comes to actually having sex with me. I’ll spend hours playing with him but I’ll be lucky if I get 15 minutes attention and most of the time it’s just a goal to make me orgasm and just with fingers or toys. I don’t know if I’m overthining the whole thing or not as he tells me he just has anxiety still from not being able to stay hard during his no sex drive days. But in my head, he’s fine with everything else, just not the actual penetrative sex. submitted by /u/Fender_900 [link] [comments]
Me (F34) Him (M33). Our sex life was pretty much non existing for the first year due to him having no sex drive which we found out was due to a prolactinoma. He was put on medication to shrink the tumour and it was like a switch and he’s horny all the time to which I’ll help make him orgasm once or twice a day. We’ve explored nearly every kink in the femdom area as that’s his main preference, especially pegging etc… He’s recently came out and accepted he’s bisexual and hot talk involves a lot of men involved etc…(not sure if it’s relevant) but he’ll be hard during sucking on my strapon dildo etc… He can stay hard through every play time we have with him except when it comes to actually having sex with me. I’ll spend hours playing with him but I’ll be lucky if I get 15 minutes attention and most of the time it’s just a goal to make me orgasm and just with fingers or toys. I don’t know if I’m overthining the whole thing or not as he tells me he just has anxiety still from not being able to stay hard during his no sex drive days. But in my head, he’s fine with everything else, just not the actual penetrative sex.
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