We’ve been talking for 6 months and official for 3. He hasn’t eaten me out yet so I got in my head about it. I asked him once to do it just in case it was a communication issue and he said not yet. I told him that I like it and he said he doesn’t know a woman who doesn’t. That there are guys who love it and that he does he’s not like that. He needs more time to be ready to do that. He told me it’s not to do with me (ie my smell I’m guessing) The last guy I was with loved to eat me out and begged me to. He hasn’t really been that great at fingering me either and I’ve only had 2 orgasms, one clitoral and one from piv. He suggested we use toys but I don’t feel desired unless I guy really enjoys eating me out. It’s really affected how I feel about his attraction towards me and I feel upset bc this is my first relationship and I care about him and he’s thoughtful in other ways. How do I communicate this to him without him getting in his head? Is it possible that he needs more time bc I feel like once I’m attracted to someone and have an emotional connection I feel so excited to please them in any way I can, even at my own expense sometimes. But I want the same in return.
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r/sex We’ve been talking for 6 months and official for 3. He hasn’t eaten me out yet so I got in my head about it. I asked him once to do it just in case it was a communication issue and he said not yet. I told him that I like it and he said he doesn’t know a woman who doesn’t. That there are guys who love it and that he does he’s not like that. He needs more time to be ready to do that. He told me it’s not to do with me (ie my smell I’m guessing) The last guy I was with loved to eat me out and begged me to. He hasn’t really been that great at fingering me either and I’ve only had 2 orgasms, one clitoral and one from piv. He suggested we use toys but I don’t feel desired unless I guy really enjoys eating me out. It’s really affected how I feel about his attraction towards me and I feel upset bc this is my first relationship and I care about him and he’s thoughtful in other ways. How do I communicate this to him without him getting in his head? Is it possible that he needs more time bc I feel like once I’m attracted to someone and have an emotional connection I feel so excited to please them in any way I can, even at my own expense sometimes. But I want the same in return. submitted by /u/Ok_Ostrich_7772 [link] [comments]
We’ve been talking for 6 months and official for 3. He hasn’t eaten me out yet so I got in my head about it. I asked him once to do it just in case it was a communication issue and he said not yet. I told him that I like it and he said he doesn’t know a woman who doesn’t. That there are guys who love it and that he does he’s not like that. He needs more time to be ready to do that. He told me it’s not to do with me (ie my smell I’m guessing) The last guy I was with loved to eat me out and begged me to. He hasn’t really been that great at fingering me either and I’ve only had 2 orgasms, one clitoral and one from piv. He suggested we use toys but I don’t feel desired unless I guy really enjoys eating me out. It’s really affected how I feel about his attraction towards me and I feel upset bc this is my first relationship and I care about him and he’s thoughtful in other ways. How do I communicate this to him without him getting in his head? Is it possible that he needs more time bc I feel like once I’m attracted to someone and have an emotional connection I feel so excited to please them in any way I can, even at my own expense sometimes. But I want the same in return.
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