Hi everyone,
I’m getting back into the dating scene at 25. I have dated people and made out before, just not gone all the way. I’ve been texting this guy (27M) who I’m unsure whether he wants to hookup or to have a relationship, in any case. I am a virgin – pertaining the fact of doing it with someone else. On the other hand. I know what I like, how I like it. I have an extensive career in pleasing myself.
So, should I tell him. I think it’d be counterproductive – if he asked Id be not blatantly lying, but maybe saying i’ve done it a long time ago and I’m a bit rusty. I feel like saying i’m a virgin would make him think he has to go slow and be gentle. which I don’t like. A white lie like that would make me feel better, and not make me seem i have an extensive body count. If he doesn’t ask, better 😂
What do you think? Thanks in advance.
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r/sex Hi everyone, I’m getting back into the dating scene at 25. I have dated people and made out before, just not gone all the way. I’ve been texting this guy (27M) who I’m unsure whether he wants to hookup or to have a relationship, in any case. I am a virgin – pertaining the fact of doing it with someone else. On the other hand. I know what I like, how I like it. I have an extensive career in pleasing myself. So, should I tell him. I think it’d be counterproductive – if he asked Id be not blatantly lying, but maybe saying i’ve done it a long time ago and I’m a bit rusty. I feel like saying i’m a virgin would make him think he has to go slow and be gentle. which I don’t like. A white lie like that would make me feel better, and not make me seem i have an extensive body count. If he doesn’t ask, better 😂 What do you think? Thanks in advance. submitted by /u/focacciaenjoyer123 [link] [comments]
Hi everyone,
I’m getting back into the dating scene at 25. I have dated people and made out before, just not gone all the way. I’ve been texting this guy (27M) who I’m unsure whether he wants to hookup or to have a relationship, in any case. I am a virgin – pertaining the fact of doing it with someone else. On the other hand. I know what I like, how I like it. I have an extensive career in pleasing myself.
So, should I tell him. I think it’d be counterproductive – if he asked Id be not blatantly lying, but maybe saying i’ve done it a long time ago and I’m a bit rusty. I feel like saying i’m a virgin would make him think he has to go slow and be gentle. which I don’t like. A white lie like that would make me feel better, and not make me seem i have an extensive body count. If he doesn’t ask, better 😂
What do you think? Thanks in advance.
submitted by /u/focacciaenjoyer123
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