Not sure if the sex was good /u/Small-Cress-5583 Sex

I’ve had a body count of one for the longest of times and i decided i need to get over this, and start having sex again. Ofc i had to make sure that its with someone i know and trust. Yesterday i asked a guy who liked me if he wanted to have sex, he said yes but he’s not had sex in almost two years and i haven’t had sex in 4 months. When we first were at it, i felt like i was pushing for the next step to happen, usually, im being controlled rather than controlling so it was abit strange engaging. We started in the couch and moved to the bed. We went at it with missionary, which was cool but i swear i felt like he gave in after 2 minutes. We took a break and all i could think about is should i ask this guy if he’s done or not cause he was sweating so much. He kept telling me that he was so confused and couldn’t believe what was happening. I assured him and asked if he was ok to go on. After abit we went at it with me on my stomach similarly like i was sleeping sort of position( i dont know the name of the position). That went on for maybe 3 minutes then he stopped. I offered to ride him but he was all out and i could tell he didn’t have it in him to go on. All he could say was he couldn’t believe what was happening right now. We called it a night and he started using his phone, he wouldn’t even look at me. He took a shower first and i went after and he still wouldn’t look at me. I dont know if it was embarrassments or frustration cause i knew he was frustrated with something else before we started having sex or maybe it was the 2 years of not having sex that made him like that. Im generally understanding so i never told him that it was bad, im used to going 15 mins to 20min and having sex for 5 minutes felt really weird. I was only dissapointed that i didnt get to cum at the end of it but I didn’t say anything because i think we both knew i didn’t cum. As for him, I actually dont know if he came or not cause i usually dont notice until way later but because this was so short, i couldnt tell. Even when i went to shower i wasnt sure if the stickiness was cum or just me. So am i in the wrong or was this totally ok on my part cause he’s the second guy I’ve had sex with and i dont know if i was or if it was good.

I’ve had a body count of one for the longest of times and i decided i need to get over this, and start having sex again. Ofc i had to make sure that its with someone i know and trust. Yesterday i asked a guy who liked me if he wanted to have sex, he said yes but he’s not had sex in almost two years and i haven’t had sex in 4 months. When we first were at it, i felt like i was pushing for the next step to happen, usually, im being controlled rather than controlling so it was abit strange engaging. We started in the couch and moved to the bed. We went at it with missionary, which was cool but i swear i felt like he gave in after 2 minutes. We took a break and all i could think about is should i ask this guy if he’s done or not cause he was sweating so much. He kept telling me that he was so confused and couldn’t believe what was happening. I assured him and asked if he was ok to go on. After abit we went at it with me on my stomach similarly like i was sleeping sort of position( i dont know the name of the position). That went on for maybe 3 minutes then he stopped. I offered to ride him but he was all out and i could tell he didn’t have it in him to go on. All he could say was he couldn’t believe what was happening right now. We called it a night and he started using his phone, he wouldn’t even look at me. He took a shower first and i went after and he still wouldn’t look at me. I dont know if it was embarrassments or frustration cause i knew he was frustrated with something else before we started having sex or maybe it was the 2 years of not having sex that made him like that. Im generally understanding so i never told him that it was bad, im used to going 15 mins to 20min and having sex for 5 minutes felt really weird. I was only dissapointed that i didnt get to cum at the end of it but I didn’t say anything because i think we both knew i didn’t cum. As for him, I actually dont know if he came or not cause i usually dont notice until way later but because this was so short, i couldnt tell. Even when i went to shower i wasnt sure if the stickiness was cum or just me. So am i in the wrong or was this totally ok on my part cause he’s the second guy I’ve had sex with and i dont know if i was or if it was good.