I can’t feel much during sex /u/TA-AltruisticFix_28 Sex

I’ve had issues getting the post up so I’ve focused on the simples of issues I’ve been experiencing so far.

TLDR: I’m unable to enjoy sex with my partner because the inside of condom dries out quickly, leading to numbness and friction.

I am hoping for advise or insight on overcoming one of the issues that im facing which, prevents me from enjoying sex with my partner.

To clarify, I’m a guy. She’s a girl, and we’re in our mid to late 20s. Our method of prevention is condoms. I hate them. After the first 2 minutes of using them, my dick numbs out because it feels like I have wrapped my dong in a nylon bag. I have tried most brands I could find in the local drug stores, from big brands (Durex sucks ass) to unknown dinky ones. They’re all the same. Due to numbing out, I also last quite long, so it has happened for the inside of the condom to dry out and start to cause friction. Which also sucks ass. I have started putting a few extra drops of lube in there from the get-go, but that only delays the inevitable.

The other problem is rather obvious, I can’t really enjoy sex given that my schlong is numb during the main event, and I literally can’t feel much of anything. So much so that the only way for me to finish once I feel like we’re reaching the conclusion is to just jackhammer away unt I get there (which luckily my gf enjoys). But that also sucks, I still can’t feel much, I am in good shape but after over 30+ min of fucking, having to jackhammer nonstop is not fun. It’s physically exhausting, and the orgasms achieved that way are pitiful, in feeling I mean, not volume. If you’ve ever forced yourself to crank one out when you didn’t feel like it but needed the dopamine, it feels exactly the same. It barely even registers on the pleasure scale, and the feeling doesn’t even linger for a second.

“If condoms suck so much, why not use other means, smartass?!”

Because my girl doesn’t like or trust the pill and its possible side effects, and I very much respect her opinions on it. The numbness didn’t used to bother me as much before, I love bringing her pleasure but this has been going on for 5+ years now, mainly giving pleasure doesn’t quite cut it anymore, I want to partake in the pleasure too!

I welcome any and all advise I can get here, I want to look forward to having sex again and not just see it as basically a chore.. Have any of you had and resolved this issues? Surely I can’t be the only one!?

I’ve had issues getting the post up so I’ve focused on the simples of issues I’ve been experiencing so far.

TLDR: I’m unable to enjoy sex with my partner because the inside of condom dries out quickly, leading to numbness and friction.

I am hoping for advise or insight on overcoming one of the issues that im facing which, prevents me from enjoying sex with my partner.

To clarify, I’m a guy. She’s a girl, and we’re in our mid to late 20s. Our method of prevention is condoms. I hate them. After the first 2 minutes of using them, my dick numbs out because it feels like I have wrapped my dong in a nylon bag. I have tried most brands I could find in the local drug stores, from big brands (Durex sucks ass) to unknown dinky ones. They’re all the same. Due to numbing out, I also last quite long, so it has happened for the inside of the condom to dry out and start to cause friction. Which also sucks ass. I have started putting a few extra drops of lube in there from the get-go, but that only delays the inevitable.

The other problem is rather obvious, I can’t really enjoy sex given that my schlong is numb during the main event, and I literally can’t feel much of anything. So much so that the only way for me to finish once I feel like we’re reaching the conclusion is to just jackhammer away unt I get there (which luckily my gf enjoys). But that also sucks, I still can’t feel much, I am in good shape but after over 30+ min of fucking, having to jackhammer nonstop is not fun. It’s physically exhausting, and the orgasms achieved that way are pitiful, in feeling I mean, not volume. If you’ve ever forced yourself to crank one out when you didn’t feel like it but needed the dopamine, it feels exactly the same. It barely even registers on the pleasure scale, and the feeling doesn’t even linger for a second.

“If condoms suck so much, why not use other means, smartass?!”

Because my girl doesn’t like or trust the pill and its possible side effects, and I very much respect her opinions on it. The numbness didn’t used to bother me as much before, I love bringing her pleasure but this has been going on for 5+ years now, mainly giving pleasure doesn’t quite cut it anymore, I want to partake in the pleasure too!

I welcome any and all advise I can get here, I want to look forward to having sex again and not just see it as basically a chore.. Have any of you had and resolved this issues? Surely I can’t be the only one!?