When my partner (M38) and I (F34) began dating two years ago or so he didn’t have issues, or he was able to hide them if so, because we didn’t see each other every day, perhaps. But I always felt that he was sort of hiding a bit in the dark or behind the haze of a J when we had sex. Compared to me he was/is sort of a quiet creature but great stamina. He is extremely fit and muscular and sexy. But I always saw a glimpse of unease. I shrugged it off. Now we live together, and he struggles with getting turned on and hard. And I, on the other hand, compared to him has a super high libido. I have had few lovers but lots of sex. I feel very easy, confident, fun, and relaxed during sex. I experiment. I moan. I play. I am into soft kissing and slow sex, and I am into rough and quick sex on the go. And lots of curious things in between. He is more into soft kissing and slow sex which is also good BUT it’s way too little and kinda always the same. I want to get fucked up against the wall, now and then. No forplay. Just raw sex. I try to inspire him to do certain things and to change things around by taking the lead and showing him the way by doing it etc but he seems to become more and more insecure and its starting to affect me in such a way that my libido is going down, and the fact that he is in his head and unable to get hard is beginning to become a turn off for me. And I don’t want it to! I find him so hot and I love him so much. It also seems to get worse for him if I try to talk about it. And now I’m a little desperate. We have the potential to have hot as f sex but we need help. Any advice?
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r/sex When my partner (M38) and I (F34) began dating two years ago or so he didn’t have issues, or he was able to hide them if so, because we didn’t see each other every day, perhaps. But I always felt that he was sort of hiding a bit in the dark or behind the haze of a J when we had sex. Compared to me he was/is sort of a quiet creature but great stamina. He is extremely fit and muscular and sexy. But I always saw a glimpse of unease. I shrugged it off. Now we live together, and he struggles with getting turned on and hard. And I, on the other hand, compared to him has a super high libido. I have had few lovers but lots of sex. I feel very easy, confident, fun, and relaxed during sex. I experiment. I moan. I play. I am into soft kissing and slow sex, and I am into rough and quick sex on the go. And lots of curious things in between. He is more into soft kissing and slow sex which is also good BUT it’s way too little and kinda always the same. I want to get fucked up against the wall, now and then. No forplay. Just raw sex. I try to inspire him to do certain things and to change things around by taking the lead and showing him the way by doing it etc but he seems to become more and more insecure and its starting to affect me in such a way that my libido is going down, and the fact that he is in his head and unable to get hard is beginning to become a turn off for me. And I don’t want it to! I find him so hot and I love him so much. It also seems to get worse for him if I try to talk about it. And now I’m a little desperate. We have the potential to have hot as f sex but we need help. Any advice? submitted by /u/LittleNarnia [link] [comments]
When my partner (M38) and I (F34) began dating two years ago or so he didn’t have issues, or he was able to hide them if so, because we didn’t see each other every day, perhaps. But I always felt that he was sort of hiding a bit in the dark or behind the haze of a J when we had sex. Compared to me he was/is sort of a quiet creature but great stamina. He is extremely fit and muscular and sexy. But I always saw a glimpse of unease. I shrugged it off. Now we live together, and he struggles with getting turned on and hard. And I, on the other hand, compared to him has a super high libido. I have had few lovers but lots of sex. I feel very easy, confident, fun, and relaxed during sex. I experiment. I moan. I play. I am into soft kissing and slow sex, and I am into rough and quick sex on the go. And lots of curious things in between. He is more into soft kissing and slow sex which is also good BUT it’s way too little and kinda always the same. I want to get fucked up against the wall, now and then. No forplay. Just raw sex. I try to inspire him to do certain things and to change things around by taking the lead and showing him the way by doing it etc but he seems to become more and more insecure and its starting to affect me in such a way that my libido is going down, and the fact that he is in his head and unable to get hard is beginning to become a turn off for me. And I don’t want it to! I find him so hot and I love him so much. It also seems to get worse for him if I try to talk about it. And now I’m a little desperate. We have the potential to have hot as f sex but we need help. Any advice?
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